Pregnancy and such adult matters (help) *adult*

[Kallisti]

Let me just say that this is a pretty graphic description of what my girlfriend and I have done and...yeah. I don't mean to be disturbing or anything we just need some information.

Also, I have no choice but to use some sexually explicit words...

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Basically...how easy would it be to accidentally become pregnant?

Information:
We were engaging in various non-intercourse sexual activities, and at one point she touched my penis and the pre-cum. Then, a few minutes later (after I think her fingers were fully dry but I don't remember exactly) she fingered herself.

It was the middle of her cycle (roughly) between two periods.

It was only precum and it was only a drop after a few minutes.
I'm just sickened with worry...

[raistlin]

I doubt you have anything to worry about. But it's good that you care. :)
Have ya talked to her about it?

[XxXflowerfairyXxX]

It's entirely possible but very unlikely.
I've heard people it's happened to but I expect there's a hell of a lot more people it hasn't happened to.
If she skips a period get a test but try not to worry because that could cause her to skip anuway.
xxx

[JamRollyPolly]

Very unlikely but as said before possible.

Maybe you could use condoms or maybe discuss the pill to stop this happening again? Safe sex is way better than unsafe sex

[Pomegranate]

hmmm yeah this has happenned to me before- statistically speaking from memory (I freaked at the time and looked it up) the odds of getting pregnant from that are extremely low although of course there is still a slim possibility. I wouldn't worry too much but to avoid it next time maybe look into the pill or something?

[charcoal feathers]

possible, but very unlikely.
try not to worry about it. just be more careful next time.

[Kallisti]

Thank you all. That's what I thought (I've known people who had entirely unprotected sex before and had not gotten pregnant, and I know that my parents -- who don't use birth control at all -- were together for three years before they had me.) but my fears were escalating and everything out of control. It's just the monumental problems it could cause, and the fact that she would find it next to impossible to obtain any contraceptive/abortive/that sort of thing services because she lives in a rural, christian area.

But thank you all for the replies. You've made my day much more bearable.
<3 love

[Sofie]

I thought it was only possible to become pregnant through intercourse?

[~smiling to please you~]

No Sofie dear,
If the area around the the womens genitals comes into contact with a mans sperm, then it is quite possible to become pregnant, thats why it is always better to try to abstain from any sexual activity until you are old enough to bear the consequenses, but if you are in love, and want to indulge in such activity, be safe, and get the proper materials.

I hope all are doing well.
xx
Nicole

[Sofie]

Oh. I'm probably thinking of something else; don't know what though...

[WishingAway]

If your worried she might be pregnant, ask her to take a test? Its the only way you'll know for sure.

[Kallisti]

She has two tests but she can't use them until two weeks from now, roughly.