well...........i think its cuz you're surrounded by a bunch of jerks.....i mean, who cares if ur bi and 4 foot 5? that's just what God probably decided to make u. now the no friends part, i say friends will come along eventually, you just have ta hang on and sooner or later a caring friend will either help you w/ your bully problem or show you how to handle it yourself. if no friends come along, well, u already have RYL
People are just jerks and take advantage of people who they think won't fight back. I'm sure there's really nothing wrong with you, people just think they can beat up on someone who looks weaker because they have no lives. *hugs* I'm sorry you have to go through it honey.
hey hunni
it ain't just u, i am bullied for two out of the three reasons above. everyone seems to get bullied at some point in there life. it ain't nice and i now how it feels to be alone and bullied.
PM me if u need someone to tlk to
hun, i been bullied for 11 years and counting. if you are a certain type of person, othe rtypes of people will always find soemthing to bully u for, even if it sint there. there is nothing wrong with you, they bully you becasue you are nice and wont stand up for youself or tell anyone becuase u are probably quiet shy and introverted. i PROMISE tho, when you leave shcool, it will all get better, and you will prbably end up being these idiots bosses.
PM me if u want to talk hun x x x
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You don't deserved to be bullied, hun. People are shallow - they care too much about making the lives of others a living hell, when they should just focus on shedding their idiotic demeanor. You're bi - it's just sexual orientation, dear, there's nothing wrong with that. There's also nothing wrong with being 4'5, and that's an even more idiotic reason to be bullied. You don't deserve it, dear, just hang in there and stay strong.
<3
if i were to guess...i'd say you were being bullied for a number of reasons.
You are possibly more attractive than the bully's, and they know this, and are trying to make you think your unattractive, when in fact you are attractive.
They are bullying you cos you are an "easy target"...you aren't exactly big, and im betting the bullies are bigger than you, so they find it easy to intimidate you ((cos ALL bullies are cowards deep down, underneath their facade))...
If they know your Bi then this may just be more ammo in their arsenal. They may use this against you knowing that it is emotionally very important to you.
See...all bullies are psychopaths. They see a weakness and exploit it. You would do well to read up about psychopaths and narcissists, as this way you will know how to act around them for example:
i used to have a really narcisstic boss. And i knew all i needed to get in his good graces was to praise him ((i was full of s h i t ...i was lying through my teeth, but i knew he was a narcissist and having knowledge about narcissists i was able to manipulate him))...like for example saying "wow! you have a COOL CAR!" or "laughing" at his pathetic jokes. Stuff like that.
Now i have two psychopath friends. Because they are psychopaths ((and yes, they will bully those who they see as "weak")) i keep myself emotionally detached from them. Cos i know they wouldn't appreciate my TRUE friendship...yet we are "friends". I never attack them, i never show "weakness" in front of them ((as if a psychopath spots a weakness, they WILL exploit it!))...im just chilled, and agree with what ever they're doing. But i don't spend much time around them at all, as i just know its pointless.
So...yeah, i would really recommend you read up on psychopaths, as most bullies grow up to be psychopaths, they're the evil bosses or co-workers who will steal your work and present it as their own, or step on you to make themselves look better...
http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/ <--- here is an EXCELLENT site on bullying, how a bully's mind operates, how you can react to a bully, and lots of info on psychopaths, how they think, how to act around them, etc.
KNOW YOUR ENEMY!!! Know how to exploit THEM due to their inherent weaknesses that comes with being a narcissist or psychopath...although one should really just dis-engage from psychopaths as they are very cunning and if you accuse them of something they will feign being the "victim".
Seriously, read the site above, read ALL ITS LINKS, and you will be a LOT better off when you next have to deal with bullies.
For example...if a bully calls you "fat" you know that their "projecting"? They really mean that THEY are fat! So you can use this projection against them...if they call you stupid, they really mean that about THEMSELVES.
Its stuff like knowing that which you can learn from the link i gave ya, which can make dealing with bullies easier.
I know its much different for girls than guys...for guys, i recommend standing up to the bully, fight them tooth and nail, even if you lose, you will have gained some respect from the bully and they may be less likely to pick on you again. I was like this all throughout school, both primary and secondary...and it ALWAYS served me well. I ALWAYS fought back, no matter who was my adversary.
But for girls its much more psychological ((which can be a worse form of bullying than physical bulling IMO, as it messes with your head)).....
anyway...know that once your out of school you PROBABLY won't be bullied ((although bullies exist in all work-places))...and it gets MUCH easier to just avoid the bully. But that's not much help to you now...just PLEASE read the link i posted, and its pages on bullying and psychopaths...cos then you will UNDERSTAND what makes them tick...and you will then know how to manipulate them YOURSELF! And then the shoe is on the other foot so to speak....
Good bye to everyone on RYL, for various reasons im leaving this site and i will never return. This may make some of you happy, and others sad. Im not leaving because of the members... Good bye and have a nice life
If they are bullying you cos you are bi then that's just wrong and ignorant of them. I hate being short too hun and i also have no friends on here but i'll be your friend if you like.
if i were to guess...i'd say you were being bullied for a number of reasons.
You are possibly more attractive than the bully's, and they know this, and are trying to make you think your unattractive, when in fact you are attractive.
They are bullying you cos you are an "easy target"...you aren't exactly big, and im betting the bullies are bigger than you, so they find it easy to intimidate you ((cos ALL bullies are cowards deep down, underneath their facade))...
If they know your Bi then this may just be more ammo in their arsenal. They may use this against you knowing that it is emotionally very important to you.
See...all bullies are psychopaths. They see a weakness and exploit it. You would do well to read up about psychopaths and narcissists, as this way you will know how to act around them for example:
i used to have a really narcisstic boss. And i knew all i needed to get in his good graces was to praise him ((i was full of s h i t ...i was lying through my teeth, but i knew he was a narcissist and having knowledge about narcissists i was able to manipulate him))...like for example saying "wow! you have a COOL CAR!" or "laughing" at his pathetic jokes. Stuff like that.
Now i have two psychopath friends. Because they are psychopaths ((and yes, they will bully those who they see as "weak")) i keep myself emotionally detached from them. Cos i know they wouldn't appreciate my TRUE friendship...yet we are "friends". I never attack them, i never show "weakness" in front of them ((as if a psychopath spots a weakness, they WILL exploit it!))...im just chilled, and agree with what ever they're doing. But i don't spend much time around them at all, as i just know its pointless.
So...yeah, i would really recommend you read up on psychopaths, as most bullies grow up to be psychopaths, they're the evil bosses or co-workers who will steal your work and present it as their own, or step on you to make themselves look better...
http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/ <--- here is an EXCELLENT site on bullying, how a bully's mind operates, how you can react to a bully, and lots of info on psychopaths, how they think, how to act around them, etc.
KNOW YOUR ENEMY!!! Know how to exploit THEM due to their inherent weaknesses that comes with being a narcissist or psychopath...although one should really just dis-engage from psychopaths as they are very cunning and if you accuse them of something they will feign being the "victim".
Seriously, read the site above, read ALL ITS LINKS, and you will be a LOT better off when you next have to deal with bullies.
For example...if a bully calls you "fat" you know that their "projecting"? They really mean that THEY are fat! So you can use this projection against them...if they call you stupid, they really mean that about THEMSELVES.
Its stuff like knowing that which you can learn from the link i gave ya, which can make dealing with bullies easier.
I know its much different for girls than guys...for guys, i recommend standing up to the bully, fight them tooth and nail, even if you lose, you will have gained some respect from the bully and they may be less likely to pick on you again. I was like this all throughout school, both primary and secondary...and it ALWAYS served me well. I ALWAYS fought back, no matter who was my adversary.
But for girls its much more psychological ((which can be a worse form of bullying than physical bulling IMO, as it messes with your head)).....
anyway...know that once your out of school you PROBABLY won't be bullied ((although bullies exist in all work-places))...and it gets MUCH easier to just avoid the bully. But that's not much help to you now...just PLEASE read the link i posted, and its pages on bullying and psychopaths...cos then you will UNDERSTAND what makes them tick...and you will then know how to manipulate them YOURSELF! And then the shoe is on the other foot so to speak....
They don't know I'm bi. They're taller than me, and some are fatter
It is not your fault that you are bullied, love. Some people pick on others for the strangest and craziest of reasons. Accents, hairstyles, backgrounds, family. I was bullied a lot when I was younger as I was a young girl with very short hair. I was never into long hair (though now I am). I was called a man and it broke my heart that just because I had an unusual hairstyle. And I just had to take everything one day at a time, though it was very hard. I'd just like you to know that things do get better. Maybe you should tell an official about the bullying? Some people say that can be bad and make things worse, but I think you should talk to somebody you can trust that can help you. I hope your days are brighter from now on, honey. xxx
*huggles tight*
Sweetie it's not because of who you are
so don't blame yourself its them
You don't deserve it and you deserve to be happy and feel good about who you are because like everyone else you are an amazing beautiful special individual
Take care sweetie and if you ever want to talk you know where I am
Katy
xx
You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
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