how do i get myself to want to love me

[preciousandfragile]

maybe its me being stubborn. it maybe its the fact that i dont feel love. but no matter what i try i never can seem to love myself. not even one thing. i want to. and i know i need to. but i just cant. what is stopping me from being happy with me? i dont want to lapse back into that awful cycle...im about a month free of SI and as much as i want to do it i know thatt i really shouldnt.. i just want to be happy with myself...how the **** do i do that? can anyone help????

[Stellata]

Have you ever felt loved? It can be hard to love yourself when you've not had a model of what feeling loved is like...

[StaceyBee]

Well done for being a month free from SI
That's really good!
If you don't feel happy about yourself maybe you could write a list of good things about yourself that other people have said to you and good things that you think about yourself
Hope that helps
:)