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Old 11-06-2007, 03:43 PM   #1
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Did I do the right thing?

I told my ex's girlfriend that he cheated on her (with me).
I told her everything and about how he talks to me and stuff.
She was obviously upset but she got angry at him not me and took it all very well.
I feel bad coz I've just crushed everything he had and ruined something that could've been good.
But at the same time I'm glad because we both deserve better than him.
He's meant to be a really good friend and I've betrayed his trust hense losing him in the process.
But I still feel better for doing it.
But I'm scared he's gunna blame it all on me when she talks to him and everyone will hate me.
He's just that kinda person...people like worship him.
I can't decide if it was the right thing to do.
She's really glad she heard it from me but I'm scared that she's gunna believe him when he starts bullshitting.
Hm.
I've lost a friend and wrecked a relationship but I still feel good about it.(Not in a horrible smug way either.)
That's not right.
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Old 11-06-2007, 05:43 PM   #2
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You did do the right thing. I think that's great that you talked to her. Apparently he must have done the same things to her else she would not have been so upset at him. If for some reason, she does believe his BS at least you know you did the right thing and if she gets hurt, you did what you could to stop it. Don't let what other people think of you, bother you so much. *hugs*

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Old 11-06-2007, 07:21 PM   #3
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You totally did the right thing. He's the one that's in the wrong, his gf had every right to know what's going on and also, what kind of a friend sleeps with you whilst going out with someone else? An asshole, that's who. He's got no-one to blame but himself, let him rot.

You've got nothing to feel bad about.

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Old 11-06-2007, 08:50 PM   #4
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You definately did the right thing, don't worry.
The girl had a right to know what was going on.
As the previous poster has said, you have nothing at all to feel bad about.



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Old 11-06-2007, 08:55 PM   #5
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Yes, that was the best thing to do.

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Old 11-06-2007, 09:23 PM   #6
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You did the right thing, really you did.
Please don't feel bad about it. She deserved to know.

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