Well i don't know how many of you know hopeless(sylvia).
She's my fiance and sadly i have bad news.
She tried to kill herself last night. She's in hospital.
She is unconscious and not breathing on her own.
Even though the doctors are saying she's stable, we are still waiting for her to wake up. And nobody knows, if she ever will wake up again.
I don't really know, what the point of this post is, but could you please show her and her family some support, through that hard time right now?
I am really worried about her, and i thought you should know what is happening right now.
Oh, i'm so sorry to here that.
We are all here to help support you and the rest of her family.
Please pass on our support to her if you can and let us know how things are going.
xXx
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im so very sorry.
she is such a kind person...she always responds to my posts with hugs or kind words.
please tell her that we have her in our thoughts.
much support to you and her family.
much love.
xx
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i dont know her, but i am so sorry for all of you
marco remember to take care fo yourself right now too
my thoughts go out to her and her family
xxxooo
I was with her almost the whole day.
She is still not awake, but as i was holding her hand, she pressed mine slightly.
Thank you for all your support, i will tell her of it, the next time i see her.
God, i really feel awful. She's still the same, i dunno if she ever wakes up again.
She was pregnant, and she lost the baby.
We already have a daughter, she is not taking this all so well.
Offers a hug for you , im so sorry you both are going through such a difficult time right now, i dont know hopless very well, myself but my heart goes out to her and you Marco right now.
Your being very brave Marco i do understand how upsetting and painfull this must be, and how hard it must be for hopless to,and i feel some of your pain as my ex wife went through trying to kill herself on more than one occa.
We all wish her the best and you and you have our support, Thanks for letting us know, its important that you feel supported to Marco through this we are here to listen to you.
I m sorry she yet hasnt woke up,that must have been comforting to you both holding each others hands, the fact she pressed your hand is a good sign.
I m sorry Marco that right now she still hasnt woke up, Again my heart goes out to hopless and you both for your loss.
Again Marco lean on us as much as you can we all will try and be there for you both.
please keep posting.
Take care
Dave
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She got worse through the day.
She's still not breathing on her own, her heart is not beating right.
I know that i sound very pessimistic now, but i don't know if she ever will wake up again.
Stay strong Marco, this is a very terrible thing for anyone to have to go through. Sylvia is a fighter, and even when it seems bad people can make remarkable recoveries.
AD
Well it breaks my heart to see you this way,
The beauty in life, where's it gone?
And somebody told me you were doing okay,
Somehow I guess they were wrong.
I don't really know what to say.
The doctors asked me today, when they should turn the machines off, cause they think, the chance that she will wake up, is very low.
I can't believe that, i won't let them turn it off, as long as she isn't suffering.
Marco. I don't know you or Hopeless or your daughter, but my heart does go out to you all. I do know that she is not suffering, and you will know what is right for you and your family at the right time. Take care.
I talked a lot with her last night.
Even though she can't answer me, but i think she can hear me.
I told her about our daughter, and how much i love her.
She pressed my hand, slightly but she did, so i have faith in her.
I hope she wakes up.
I told them to turn the machines off, today.
And she started breathing on her own. And she was awake today, for a few hours. It took her a while to remember who i am, but the doctors said that she will remember everything in a few days again.
She's very weak and tired, but she will be okay again.
I don't know Hopeless or you, except from what I've read in this thread. I can tell that you are a very strong and courageous person. I'm glad to hear that she is awake and doing better. With the kind of devotion and strength you have shown here, she is lucky to have you to lean on. I wish you all the best!
D.
"A loveless world is a dead world, and always there comes an hour when one is weary of prisons, of one's work, and of devotion to duty, and all one craves is a loved face, the warmth and wonder of a loving heart." - Albert Camus
I'm glad that she is doing better and the doctors expect her to recover. I hope you are doing better to now.
AD
Well it breaks my heart to see you this way,
The beauty in life, where's it gone?
And somebody told me you were doing okay,
Somehow I guess they were wrong.
That's fantastic that she's doing so much better! Maybe she knew that she suddenly had to fight even harder or you would lose her. My love and faith are with you both! *hugs and love*
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
