PANIC....

pea soup · 10-06-2007, 09:49 PM

ok...i just got the news yesterday that my mother is getting married in 2 weeks!!!!

i have to save money...pay off some bills...find a place to live....and move within 2 months!!!!

needless to say my world just went a little sideways. im scared. i dont have transportation. everything seems confusing. i cant get my mind to concentrate.

someone help me??
just tell me what to do.
please.

Margo · 10-06-2007, 09:54 PM

OK BREATHE!!!

One step at a time.

Write a list!

Its all going to be ok.

xxx

bleedingdragon · 11-06-2007, 12:31 AM

Hugs you
Please listen to Matthew
some more slow deep breaths

making a list is a great idea
you can do this take one thing ata time
this is an opertunity for you that will im sure be good once
youve sorted stuff
hugs you
Dave

chocostashchick · 11-06-2007, 03:04 AM

Lists are great

You can do this!!! Maybe your fam can help advise you? I don't know the details of what you need to sort out but if you need somebody to bounce things off of pm me or message me any time hunny

xxxooo

HappyFeet · 12-06-2007, 06:24 AM

Oh dear. Matt's right. Start with a list, then do things one at a time (most important ones first).

Destinationzero · 12-06-2007, 05:01 PM

I'm glad you mom has found someone she thinks she can spend her life with.

Just calm down....breathe...and think about one thing at a time. If you think about everything at one time it will get too jumbled and wierd.

Everything will be fine in time and you will be able to get everything done ok. You'll be ok.

TouchVanDerBoom · 12-06-2007, 11:32 PM

Wow big news, my mum is also getting married but I moved out long ago so it doesn't effect me in the same way. I get it though, sudden upheavel, I was once evicted and had only a few weeks to find somewhere to live and gather a whole house full of crap. It was intense. I feel for you.
*hug*

Casper_Fading · 13-06-2007, 02:25 AM

That;s awesome for you mum and for you also. It's a bit quick when you're not ready but this is a big step for you honey. Time to show yourself what you can do! Breathing is good! Matty's right about that. Also lists are good too. Most important to minor things. Ask your mum to help maybe if she has the time?