it wasnt my choice, it wasnt me who decided to die so why does it hurt why did it happen, why does everyone i care about hurt to much dfor me to mention it, why does it still hurt after 4 yrs?? i miss him
If I pretended I was blind
And struck it from my mind
Would it still be there?
What if I'd do anything
To make it seem all right
I finally got Lei'd in Vets....It was an enjoyable experience!
There are no rules for grief hun, no time limit for how long it will last and no set way people deal with it. It is natural to miss someone who has passed away but there is no explaining why people have to die. I understand the pain of losing someone you care about but eventually you will find yourself missing them slightly less each day and things will get a bit easier. If you can't talk to any friends or family could you consider speaking to a counsellor or someone who could support you in the real world too?
It's okay to miss him. There are people who were in my life that I will miss for the rest of my life. Like Emma said, there is no time limit on grief.
*Gives you a big hug*
My husband is my best friend.
In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.
