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Old 17-01-2008, 10:31 PM   #1
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UPDATE!!!

Hi everyone. I know it has been a long time since I posted, but I have been having a heck of a time trying to post. Everytime I go to post a new thread the system asks me to sign in but does not keep me signed in. I was wondering how many of our expecting mommies have had there babies since about Dec. 12, 2007. I am currently 28 weeks along and the babies are doing great. they are a little over 2 1/2 pds a piece, by doctors view, and 14 1/2 inches long each. other than being tired all the time, I feel pretty good. I have gained a little less than I could of by this stage, and feel generally healthy.
I got my protective order and should be able to finalize my divorce once these little guys are here. my ex-husband, as far as im concerned finalized or not he is my ex, is still harrassing me and teh police do not seem to be doing much about it but I am talking to my lawyer to find out what else I can do to stop him.
My other set of boys, for those of you who dont know I already have one set of twins, seem to be adjusting well, but there first visitation is scheduled for February 2, and although it is supervised I am not sure how they will handle it. They seem to just now be realizing that they are safe and the bastard is not coming back, but what happens when they are forced to see him. I am afraid that since they are only 3 they will not realize that it is just a short visit and will feel betrayed and scared again. These guys are so traumatised by him that we can not mention the daddy at all in front of them and had to hide any pictures containing him because when they saw them they would freak. because this is a general chat forum I will not mention what has happened to them or me explisitly.
Also I got my grade from last semester and with all that I went through I still got all A's. OMG. I am just shocked with myself. well better shut up, but if someone could update me on our current moms to be and our recent new additions ( babies born ) i would really love it. Thanks.

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Old 22-01-2008, 07:57 PM   #2
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to be honest, you'll have to have someone update you on babies...I know there are many, some pending, but i cant for the life of me remember who...sorry.
I'm so proud of you for getting out of that shitty relationship, way to go you :o).
I'm not sure but on these supervised visits, if the suiperviser sees it is traumatizing to them as you know them to be, perhaps the visits will be suspended? Is not sure.
Congrats to you...you have alot happening just now and you are handling it beatifully, especially as you have 3 year old twins *faints*..i couldnt do it...
kudos to you
keep us updated ok?
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Old 25-01-2008, 05:08 AM   #3
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Just wondeering how you are getting on. Are things resolved with the ex and lawyer? hopefully you get a restraining order or some such...
Keep us posted ok?
And happy new twins )

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Old 25-01-2008, 11:36 PM   #4
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Nice to hear from you hunni.
Thanks for the update an such.




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Old 27-01-2008, 01:28 AM   #5
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Thanxs for the update
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Old 28-01-2008, 11:23 PM   #6
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yes, i got my restraining order and my court date for my final divorce hearing is something like may3. my C-section is scheduled for March 24, exactly 8 weeks away and these little guys seem to be doing great. the most annoying thing about my pregnancy right now is not that i pee every 45 minutes lol, or have no rrom to eat, its this darn pregnancy induced stupidity. i am like living up the common belief that all of us blonde are ding bats. i start canversations and can not remember wher ei was going with it, drive and cant remember where im headed, and yesterday i made one of my kids cups with milk and Dawn dishwashing liquid, thank god it bubbled like crazy when i shook it so i realised what i had done before he took a drink of it and conked me in the head with it. i am actually doing pretty good, in good spirits and getting excited at the thought of meeting the little guys. thanks for all the support and help i have gotten i really appreciate it.

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Old 28-01-2008, 11:56 PM   #7
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glad you have got things sorted

Congratulations on getting your A grades



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