girlfriend trouble

leafate · 08-06-2007, 02:13 AM

hey. just got some stuff on my mind fort writting bout it may help. ive been seeing a girl for just 3 weeks, but then the other night i ended up sleeping with this bi curious girl, and although i know nothing can come with the bi girl, it had made me realise that things are not ment to be with the girl im seeing.and shes not the one so i feel its pointless seeing eachother if i dont feel that way about her, but even though its only been 3 weeks she seems to really like me and care about me, and i feel so bad leting her down. it has to be done though dosent it?

i always seem to let go of the ones i trust and know and believe they care, and i always go for the head**** ones that i dont trust or believe they care. wonder why that is.

anyway thanks for bothering reading if you do lol.

leafate xxx

linder surprise · 08-06-2007, 02:17 AM

it's okay.
i'd say dump her as soon as.
theres no point in stretching it out.
shrug. someone has to dump someone. don't feel too bad.

leafate · 08-06-2007, 02:19 AM

do u think shed mind if i said it in a tx? i am a bit of a cowad lol least i addmit it.x

linder surprise · 08-06-2007, 02:21 AM

yes.
i think she'd mind.
try & do it to her face. she probably deserves that much.
but shrugg. it's up to you. she'll prob be pissed at you if you dump her via txt. so if you're not worried about being very good friends with her after this, then it seems okay-ISH.
but i would much prefer to get dumped facetoface.

leafate · 08-06-2007, 02:38 AM

yea its just she lives quite far away in which case it'll feel like im leading her on till i see her which could be good few days.
how ironic, the bi girl just this second rung me :D god why do i always fall for the wrong ones.

crazykat · 08-06-2007, 11:35 AM

Yeah dump her as soon as you can
The longer you draw it out the more you will hurt her
Gud luck with it all
hugs kat

Saerie · 08-06-2007, 12:05 PM

Agreed with all the advice above
Good luck :)

Everlong · 08-06-2007, 02:21 PM

dumping by txt?!

"do you think she'd mind" **** YES! l would never dump anyone like that. Atleast have the stones to say it to her face lol

Pathetic Fallacy · 08-06-2007, 03:54 PM

Try making her hate you so she dumps you and then you wont have to feel bad about it :P

xKissesAndWishesx · 08-06-2007, 04:53 PM

Do it face to face, 'cause otherwise you might feel guilty afterwards :)
But be nice.. and don't use cliches like, ''it's not you, it's me''
Be upfront, and she'll respect you more for it.
Good luck!

leafate · 08-06-2007, 06:19 PM

everlong its been 3 weeks, we are not going out, we are seeing one another, so you cant consider it dumping. and if your gona be so rude when replying why bother? nothing better to do? get over it

leafate · 08-06-2007, 06:20 PM

ps kisses and wishes thankyou for your KIND advice.x

leafate · 08-06-2007, 06:21 PM

hahaha pathetic fallacy i like you already, you crack me up. lol

charcoal feathers · 08-06-2007, 08:50 PM

Best thing to do is to dump her to her face.
but do whatever you want, dump her by text if you're that much of a coward, you obviously don't think much of her to do it that way if you do (even if you are just seeing each other) The one thing i will say is, i've just been cheated on, i basically got dumped by text but he came down a few days later and told me he'd cheated on me and explained everything to me and im so thankful for that. Yes it hurt a hell of a lot, but for some reason it really helped.

leafate · 08-06-2007, 09:07 PM

god what is it with people on here have to argue about one question, as i said i dont see her much as she lives far away in which case if i leave it till i see her it would be like i was leading her on till then. u thick or sumit. no offence but i aint surprised he cheated on you and dumped you by tx, you seem a proper moody bitch whos loves to row, his better of rid lol.

ur going on block mate. i cant be bothered to argue over a computer with lil girls