Triggering (SI) - Cuts and Sex *adult*

Rogalsgirl · 30-12-2007, 05:49 PM

I was wondering, like, does anyone or would anyone here get really sexually aroused if they cut in front of someone, or heard/saw someone else cutting?

You can just write an answer 'yes' or 'no', or you can elaborate if you want.

Thanks, and I hope everyone is doing well :)

squirrelspit · 30-12-2007, 06:07 PM

me and my partner sometimes cut each other during sex, or as kind of foreplay.
its mostly me that cuts her.
i dont know if its the blood or what but it makes me really horny.

zowie · 30-12-2007, 06:16 PM

/\ Me and my boyfriend do that too.

Ami · 30-12-2007, 06:27 PM

no not at all, i find that really weird

but each to their own and whatnot... :)

Scumbelina · 30-12-2007, 06:44 PM

No - for my self-harm is about pain & suffering. Sex is about love, trust & pleasure

Dan · 30-12-2007, 07:19 PM

I think there's a very thin line between pleasure and pain, especially in people in our kind of situation. Just my 0.2p.

Rogalsgirl · 30-12-2007, 07:22 PM

^^ Yeah. I find pleasure in pain :$

surprising mystery · 30-12-2007, 07:25 PM

I cant say I would be aroused at all, but I know pleasure and pain are linked, and I spose I might try it,, but I doubt it,, it just doesnt fit my ideas of lurve-making :P xx

y a s m i n · 30-12-2007, 11:14 PM

i agree - i think there's a thin line between pleasure and plain..

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Benjibum · 01-01-2008, 02:17 PM

i definitely agree... that and really really hard biting

Louise · 01-01-2008, 03:40 PM

no i also feel self injury is about pain and suffering

Benjibum · 01-01-2008, 04:11 PM

If you get cut by someone else willingly, is that self harm? i consider it as self harm, but i ask for it a hell of alot =S

xfallenangelx · 01-01-2008, 04:19 PM

i would never let the 2 cross over. self harm is a private, punishing thing for me, and has nothing to do with sex or love for me.

Race The Dream · 02-01-2008, 01:46 AM

^^ I agree, but I can understand where other people are coming from.

crazykat · 02-01-2008, 01:52 AM

No....

sixsixes · 02-01-2008, 03:32 AM

well ive had a real lust for blod but cant ever say i have done anything like that, bu.t dunno why i like and have a lust for blood so bad, meh, wierd

purexcocaine · 02-01-2008, 05:06 AM

nope nope.
i haven't had sex, but i would never let the two cross.
my cutting is private and tbh i would want blood over me while i was having sex anyway. =/

scarlett1 · 02-01-2008, 04:51 PM

whilst I'm into the whole pleasure pain thing the cutting itself is associated with hurting myself. Plus I like the pain to be something sensual, ie them touching me with themselves rather than an instrument (erm...make sense??), so it's have to be the hitting and biting method for me :P

Rogalsgirl · 02-01-2008, 04:56 PM

I didn't necessarily mean the other person cutting you during sex, or the other person cutting you at all for that matter.

I meant, if you saw your partner or someone cutting themselves, would it turn you on? (You can continue to give your thoughts on the matter of cutting DURING sex, but that isn't what I meant)

Thanks :)

scarlett1 · 02-01-2008, 05:15 PM

nah...even if I saw them cutting themselves I still have those associations in my mind. I couldn't get turned on by that. The only time I get lusty around blood is if there's a rare beef roast in front of me :P