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Old 15-12-2007, 01:02 AM   #1
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As you all know i have bpd but lately i have been feeling so overwelmed and depressed i am scared my boyfriend will abandon me like everyone else I also been having alot of anxiaty atttacks over my fear of abandonment.Why do i feel ashamed to tell my friends i have bpd i hate feeling this way and yesterday i had a angry episode i went crazy and scared my mom and myself.Any advice on how i can tell my closest friends about my illness.I cant even get motivated to get out of bed or go out the house.Why do i feel so useless.
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Old 15-12-2007, 03:38 AM   #2
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If you are scared to tell them in person... can you possibly write to them? I think with all this going on they may be concrned for you and you dont know it. Try not to expect the worse in that they will abandon you.. if they are true freinds they will be right by your side helping you.

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Old 15-12-2007, 07:45 PM   #3
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Hey I have BPD too. Originally I didn't care who knew, but when I went back to schoo lafter being ip for a long time I tried to hide it and it was very stressful. I've told a fwe people I have mental health problems and some of them bpd and to be honest most of them have been through mh problems themselves which I didn't know about. I mean, there are elements of bpd that everyone can relate too, feeling angry, havign mood swings, being scared of abandonment, these are normal things, but we [people with bpd] just have it a lot more severely and chronically compared 'normal' people. If you explained it in these terms they might understand better. Most of my friends have no clue what bpd means but are ok with it. If they're not nice to you about it chances are they're not worth knowing.

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Old 18-12-2007, 05:40 PM   #4
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I can empathise too as i have BPD and have recently been pretty bad and scaring my housemates with my angry outbursts and mood swings. I haven't told them as I had it under control for quite a while, but it seems to have reared it's ugly head again :S.

Kate had a good idea of writing it down? You could email them? I do that quite often when i want to tell people things that i find hard.



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