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Old 15-07-2021, 07:19 PM   #1
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Coming off medication completely

I have been on some form of meds since I was a teenager and I am getting more and more reluctant to take them. I am thinking of speaking to my CPN/Psychiatrist about coming off them all but I don't know how. I have in the past stopped cold turkey but I'm thinking that's not the best idea. My partner doesn't agree but I just hate being dependant on them. Is it possible to be OK without medication do you think? Any words of wisdom is appreciated.







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Old 15-07-2021, 07:26 PM   #2
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I think it depends on you and your situation tbh. I don't think there's a hard yes or no answer. I think you need to think about if you have a solid support system and solid coping skills in place to be able to handle if things get bad without medication there to help. I definitely agree that you should do it with your CPN/psych's support for sure versus going cold turkey. I also think that there's nothing wrong or shameful with being dependent on meds if they do help make things easier for you.

Why is your partner against it? Why are you so against being dependent on them? Just a few things to think about.



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Old 15-07-2021, 08:35 PM   #3
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At my last appointment with my psychiatrist I floated the idea of coming off my meds .... I'm now an inpatient at a MBU.

My consultant said I was currently unwell and whilst my medication wasn't particularly helping she said that the odds were that my post partum psychosis would return and I would end up in hospital and most likely on an acute ward without my baby.

She did say that when patients bring up the idea of coming off medication there are times when she absolutely supports their decision and they go on to manage fine off medication but in my case with the current instability in my mood this was highly unlikely.

Having been admitted I am in the process of stopping the meds that weren't helpful and moving on to another medication that I will hopefully be able to take as a monotherapy. From previous experience I find it easier to only have one medication.

What are the concerns your partner would have?
How stable has your mood been recently?



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Old 16-07-2021, 05:10 PM   #4
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I am in the process of stopping my meds. Like you, i have been on various forms of psych meds since my teenage years. When you're quite young, you just take whatever they throw at you partly ina desperate hope for relief and partly because you believe them when they say the meds are your safest bet.

Over the years i have come to discover that when they start you up on meds it's usually standard procedure. In my country, medication is used instead of offering therapy in a lot of cases because medication works out cheaper than therapy.

If you feel like the meds aren't helping, aren't contributing significantly to your Well being and don't make much of a difference then i Think that weaning off them would be worth a try. And yes, please do so in some sort of cooperation with a gp or a therapist/cmth person.

What i've found from Reading about this on the internet and from asking friends who have stopped their meds is that it's better to go as slow as possible. You have been on meds for a long time and your body and brain has become dependent on them. So do expect some sort of withdrawal symptoms if you decide to do it. It would probably be wise to make a plan of what to do, who to contact should those symptoms become bad. Remember, even with each small reduction you can always increase a bit again if it goes too fast or if you feel too unstable mentally to handle a decrease right now. Better to reach a point of stability between each reduction.

A lot of people with mental health problems cope fine without medication. And a lot of people don't. And some just want the Security of being on medication that they feel help them in various ways.

Whatever you decide, i wish you all sorts of luck

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Old 16-07-2021, 06:58 PM   #5
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Thank you for all your input, advice and replies <3
My partner has said I will get ill if I stop taking them as I have done in the past when stopped cold turkey, however, I wonder if I were to stop slowly that wouldn't happen. I'm not sure why I don't like them, I just don't think they are doing anything because I am OK now. Things are different, I am coping better.

I see my CPN this week so will see what she says.







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Old 17-07-2021, 09:46 PM   #6
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I mean at the risk of asking the obvious, is it possible that you feel okay/ are doing okay because they're actually working? Or do you think something else has changed that you're coping better than you used to?



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Old 21-07-2021, 01:29 PM   #7
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Thanks for replying. <3 <3

Maybe thats true. I have an appointment with my psychiatrist soon to discuss my meds so we will see what she thinks. :)







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Old 23-07-2021, 02:33 AM   #8
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Stopping cold turkey can cause a lot of issues. When I went off my antidepressants I did it slowly and still had a lot of withdraw effects such as feeling nauseous and having "brain zaps." Certain meds can be harder to get off of. Like Auror said too sometimes people feel a med isn't working when really it is. I think people get use to the new feeling with meds and then kind of forget how bad it was without the meds.



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