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Old 12-11-2007, 06:43 AM   #1
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Triggering (SI) - how to hide my arm HELP!

so i really hurt myself last night. i made so many cuts up my arm from my wrist to my elbow i even wrote the word hurt along with all the lines. now i heres the problem. i play volleyball, and i can definitely cover up at practice, but i have a game wednesday and i dont know what im gonna do. i cant let anyone see my cuts, so i know im gonna have to wrap up like my wholeee arm, but what the hell am i supposed to tell everyone when they ask whats up? anyone have any suggestions? i only need a temporary solution because its my last game of the season after that itll be easy to hide under my clothes.

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Old 12-11-2007, 07:05 AM   #2
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Could you just wrap up your arm in an Ace bandage or something similar and say you twisted it or pulled a muscle or something like that? If people ask questions, just say "long story" and change the subject or walk away. I don't know, just an idea. Take care.



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Old 12-11-2007, 08:51 AM   #3
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Uhm... I think what Butterfly said is good, but also if the cuts aren't very deep (are they?) maybe if they heal enough by then you could use coverup. I don't know how bad they are though, and if they don't heal by then I think the ace bandage is best!

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Old 12-11-2007, 07:00 PM   #4
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(((hugs)))
i'm sorry to hear that u cut urself u must've been facing loads of pressure....

check this Link it has helpful ideas ...

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Old 12-11-2007, 07:05 PM   #5
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You could try wearing a thin long sleeved white top [thus discreate] under your usual clothing and say you get cold really easily.

"Oh god yeah I get freezing so quick! It's like the middle of summer and I turn on the heating my parents get crazy about it! Haha, it wasn't so bad this summer though... must be global warming finally doing some good eh? ooh *rant about global warming"



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Old 12-11-2007, 10:45 PM   #6
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Yup I think a tubi - grip or ace bandage would be the only things that would cover an area that size!






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Old 13-11-2007, 07:13 AM   #7
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i feel ya. i play basketball and it is so scarey when you know everyone could see.i went to a sports store and got one of those three quarter length sleeves made out of underarmor. told everyone i pulled a muscle and that it was compressing it to keep it still. it worked for me.



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Old 13-11-2007, 06:22 PM   #8
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thanks for all ur advice : ) it means alot, if they heal enough by the time i need to play, im gonna try makeup but if not the whole bandage/compression sleeve thing isnt a bad idea and would prob be the best explanation. i appreciate u guys helpin me out, thanks again!



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Old 14-11-2007, 08:56 PM   #9
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One time, when I cut really bad on my arm, i wrapped my arm in an ace bandage (i had work the next day and the uniform is a tshirt). I told people that I fell down the stairs and that I have a really bad rug burn. Thankfully, no one asked to see them. It helped me hide them until they were well enough to wear a t-shirt with.

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Old 15-11-2007, 06:36 PM   #10
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How did you get on yesterday then? Did anybody notice yer arm?






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Old 16-11-2007, 07:59 AM   #11
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a couple ppl did, only one asked, i said i had a skin problem lol i put a ton of makeup on it...what a dumb answer but no one asked again. i bet some ppl talked about it when i wasnt around but i dont care, i just hate those stares i get and thats the worst part of ppl knowing... so now im just trying to put it behind me thanks to everyone for the advice



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Old 16-11-2007, 03:42 PM   #12
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Twas very brave of you to go out in short sleeves! Go u! Just ignore those people... They probly dont have a clue what it is anyway! Let them stare! Haha! Good luck!






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Old 17-11-2007, 06:38 PM   #13
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People often don't notice things right in front of them.
If they don't know what they are looking for they won't guess.

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