Sometimes I wonder how I can form a healthy relationship when I have severe mood swings?

[Videla]

I have a hard time concentrating, one minute I'm happy the next minute I'm crying, i have depression where I am doing nothing and dont want to get out of bed and the next day im happy. My ex called me mean names because I couldn't control myself and I am glad im away but I wonder if i should check a doctor. I want to better myself but I finally found out that's never gonna happen.

Im afraid I will screw up. I dont want to screw up with friends or relationships. some people tell Im delusional and think I want attention but I have noticed as I got older it got worse. I have cried a lot and got happy and I get mad and talk to myself. All within one day.

The only thing that's similar is bipolar but I cant say i am because ive never gotten diagnosed by a professional.

I am poor so I dont know what to do I feel like I might get worse. All good advice is welcomed. Thank you.

I recently found a link on yahoo about this site so I think its good I can at least try to get explanation.

[Pi.R^2]

Sorry to hear that you are having difficulties with mood swings. I would definitely recommend seeing a doctor about this, as they may be able to offer medication, therapy or other treatments to help improve things for you. As a first step, maybe go and see your GP?

[~SuNsHiNe~]

Sorry to hear that you're having such a tough time at the moment *hugs* I know it can be really difficult but it would be worth talking to your doctor about so they can help assess what support you need. Hope it all works out for you:)

[Wonderland.]

Your best bet is to see a doctor like others have said.

People who treat you like that aren't worth having in your life. If anything I'd sit them down and try and explain that you are struggling with mood swings and don't know why but are trying to get help for it. So if they could try and understand and have some patience with you that you would be very grateful as it's not easy for you flipping from one mood to another just like that. And not knowing why.

I hope things improve for you soon and that you are able to get some answers.

[Arienette]

i think seeing a dr is the most logical step too.

I don't think relationships are going to be impossible if you get help, they won't be easy but with the right help it can definitely get better.

hope you manage to get the right help. xx