Oh C'est La Vie.

[Sad Fork]

What to do, what to do? I've found out my only girlfriend, and first love, has been proposed to and getting married. Why does this bother me? She's the only person who I've ever been concerned about what she thinks of me. Why does that matter? Because I still feel responsible for asking how she is, telling how I am, etc. I don't know why. I haven't thought about her for a long, long time, I'd say about 5-6 months. Randomly today out of nowhere I got a weird sub-conscious message that I should check in on her. We've been broke up for 5 and a half years, only went out for two. I literally haven't dated since then, and I think I've officially accepted that I'm not going to be married in my life. So why am I coming to forums? Oh, I just want someone to feel me. I'm having some pretty bad thoughts about it and nothing really helps, haha. I'm laughing because this is making me pretty delirious. Should I congratulate her? Ya know, its almost like the break up all over again. Idk, idk. Why do I feel like I wanna know what she thinks about me now? I wonder if I'm ever on her mind. Do you think I am? Why do I wanna know?

[Bellatrix]

I'm sorry you've had this break up. it must be hard to see someone you still care about moving on.

I don't really have any advice but I think it would be a good idea to try and move on from her... she's obviously in a relationship and you need to come to terms with it it.

[Harley]

Advice is really hard to give - it's a horrid situation to be in, I've been there myself. I've got a really strong monogamous streak that even lasts well after relationships have ended.

It's all about moving on yourself - properly moving on. But that in itself is often a lot easier said than done...