Why do ppl lie?

[Namelesssoul]

What's it mean when someone can't tell the truth no matter what annd feels the need to lie about everything no matter if it's over something dumb

Other then they shouldent be in my life anymore

[Steel Maiden]

I don't have time for compulsive liars. The person could have pathological lying but perhaps you need to set boundaries.

[Too Shy]

I'm sorry to hear you've been having difficulties with somebody lying to you, that must feel very hurtful.

Would it help to talk a bit more about what's been going on with this person?

[Namelesssoul]

Yea we had a relationship a vary good one now all I get is lies over stupid things I don't even get mad over

Seems she tells me she loves me and everything but talks diffrently behind my back...

Like I honestly am going to wash my hands of it all soon we did make an agreement on things we both need to change for things to get better between us but really it's been about a week and I am the o my one trying she says "oh I'm not feeling myself today" n that's supposed to give her the right to treat me like complete crap :/ I've got no one to even talk about this with other then here witch no offence to anyone or this site it's just makes me feel pathedic ... Like I love this girl that much that I'm getting treated like crap .... I think if things do t change soon I'm leaving and moving far far away from her never to talk to her again

[nowhereman]

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Originally Posted by Namelesssoul

Other then they shouldent be in my life anymore

This. 1) you deserve better and 2) this might be hard to hear, but you love a lie. I don't mean you love people lying, I mean you think you love this girl but if she just lies to you, then in truth you don't even know her. And again, you deserve better than that.

I'm sorry.

As for your question, I really don't know. I would never bothered even trying to lie, I don't see the point. Like I said, if I lie to someone then they wouldn't actually know me and why would I want to pretend to be someone else? I may not be a great person but I'm always me.

Ryl is always here anyway, I know what you mean about feeling pathetic, but I hope it's better than having nowhere to say it. No one here can judge you for being here, since we're all here too, and no one else needs to know. And if they did judge you for seeking help, well then, they're not all that nice.