Work crush :/

[Aaronsky93]

Hi,

I've had a crush on a work colleague for the last few weeks, we seem to get along quite well in the office and flirt every now and again. Even some of my other colleagues have asked me on a number of occasions if there's something going on between us. Anyway, I finally gathered some courage and told her after work that I've recently started to like her, she seemed shocked but smiled a little, but didn't say anything, I didnt want to pressure her. So I said "you don't have to say anything to that, I just wanted to get it of my chest, have a good weekend"

As I sat in my car I could see her glancing across at me. We also have a very similar route home, about 14 miles before she turns of the highway/dual carriage way. As she turned of on her exit and I passed her she looked at me again so I smiled at her.

How should I deal with this when we see each other on Monday?, I mean, it's probably going to be awkward, should I pull her aside and talk to her about it. Keep some distance?

What should I say to her if I did pull her aside?

Thanks in advance

[ajrocks]

I think the ball is now in her court to be honest let her go away and have a think and just see what she says when she sees you.
I think you've dealt with it very well and put it in a good way and i would try not to be awkward just talk to her normally (easier said than done i'm sure!) but the more at ease you are the more likely she'll talk to you and you'll get your answer :) I wouldn't pull her aside no as you don't want to come across that you're pressuring her or anything but well done for being brave and saying how you feel-if only more people in the world were as honest with their feelings

[Aaronsky93]

I'm a bit relieved now after hearing that. Just don't want to mess anything up, it's been a few years since I've liked a girl this much.

Thanks ajrocks!