Guy Keeps Asking To Hang Out

[SadGirl55]

Whenever I send a message to this one guy asking how he is,etc he alway's brings up wanting to hang out with me and alway's asks me to hang out.
I want to hang out with him just not yet.
So whenever he asks I'm alway's bringing up excuses :(
What should I do?
What should I say to him?
I don't want to hurt his feelings :(
It's just to soon/ I want space for awhile before I hang out with him.

[KneeSocks]

Tell him the truth. It sucks trying to hang out with someone and they keep giving you an around about excuse, you soon begin to catch on and think the person doesn't like you or something.
So tell him something hey I do want to hang out but a lot is going on ect. You dont have to tell him the reason just say you aren't comfortable. If he is a nice guy he will understand.

[consequential]

Is this the same guy who is younger? All of your threads are the same and give little information and appear to be all be about this guy.

[SadGirl55]

Yea it is about the younger guy.
I don't know what other information to give xx

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Originally Posted by Musical_Solitude

Is this the same guy who is younger? All of your threads are the same and give little information and appear to be all be about this guy.

[consequential]

You change your opinion of his daily in the threads. Hang out with him or tell him you don't want to hang out with him. This issue would be best kept to one thread rather than loads of small posts about the same thing but with different feelings which confuses and will aggrevate people who might be feeling unwell. It's a clear cut thing, you either want to be with him or not. If you do then be with him and see what happens.