I'm struggling :(

unhappy_soul · 28-12-2014, 09:08 PM

My and my boyfriend broke up on boxing day. It was a mutual split because we'd had enough of arguing and never seeing each other (work commitments).

However I deeply regret my decision and I want him back :'(

It's only been 3 days and although we agreed to remain friends, I miss him so much.

I'm really depressed and my anxiety has returned. I'm not coping well at all and I can't sleep at night.

I've been trying to throw myself into my job and read/play xbox when I'm home to help take my mind off things but it's not working.

We were together for over 3 years and he was my best friend, now I'm just lost :'(

Sooty · 28-12-2014, 10:07 PM

Hi there,

I'm so sorry for your break up. It must be a very difficult time for you both. This is going to be the worst part right now but things will get easier. If this is a decision that you BOTH made and that you BOTH think is for the best, it will eventually smooth out into a mutual friendship. Three years is a long time. Sorry my advice isn't great. I just wanted to let you know that we're here to help you through *hugs*

Sophie.x

unhappy_soul · 29-12-2014, 06:30 PM

Thanks Sophie :)

I just wish I could get him back :(