Only one at church not invited to birthday parties

[galeckifan]

I am so upset, I am never invited to birthday parties or weddings of people at my church and I am the only one not invited. Once again a girl at my church had a birthday party at a restaurant last night and invited everyone in my church group except me. She made a facebook status thanking everyone for coming and tagged everyone in my church group. I am upset that once again I was the only one not invited

[Pi.R^2]

Are you sure you were the only one not invited? Sometimes it feels like everyone in the world has been invited but then when you think about it calmly you realise there were lots of other people not invite either!

Maybe they haven't got to know you well enough yet; could you maybe organise a social event so that they get a chance to get to know you more outside of just seeing you at church?

[Nicholas]

Is there someone in a possition of authority who can judge this from a distance?
Are you putting yourself out there socially? If not, maybe try and turn this around - ask someone if they would like to do x; organise a gathering; suggest an event.

[Steel Maiden]

Does it matter if you're not invited? I was always excluded like that at school and I didn't care. I wasn't interested in their herd conformity parties. You're probably not missing much.