help? advice? anything ? am confused

hurtnpain · 29-10-2007, 06:30 PM

i have just seen my nut doctor and have left feeling worse than when i went in .he told me that my bpd is in my head and its my subconcious mind that i can hear talking to me (if thats true why do i need to take the tablets) the 6other nut doctors agreed that i have bpd , so why is he saying that ? then he asked if i knew how to stop it all .. i said yes die .. he said thats 1 opp so is he saying i should ?? am confused ?
then he started going on about the baby i lost (19weeks ago but whos counting ) this baby was planned for over a year and wanted so much ... he said it died as subconsciously i didnt want it wtf? wheres he get that as i defo never said anything like that ? am just hurt and confused and am not taking my tablets now whats the point if nothing is wrong ?

slipping up again · 29-10-2007, 07:17 PM

I'm so sorry you're feeling bad after your appointment. Often doctors dont have any idea the effect their words can have, if they did they probably wouldnt say half the stuff that they do say. If you know in your heart the truth then dont listen to him. Only you know how you really feel. Can you go back to the other doctor or get another opinion. I wouldnt recommend stopping your meds without a doctor suggesting it.
Tale care Xx

pea soup · 29-10-2007, 08:16 PM

first words SECOND OPINION!!!!!!!
im sorry but that just makes me angry. he really has no right to speak to you that way, especially after the loss of your baby.
im so sorry hunni.
im on msn if youd like a chat.
much much love.
xx

blondiebear · 29-10-2007, 11:01 PM

this doctor sounds like a cruel idiot. Find a new doctor then report this icky one to the medical board! it may be difficult but if he is saying to others the kind of things he is saying to you, he is seriously dangerous!

don't stop your meds without a doc's supervision

please find another doctor. it is awful that he is dismissing your problems like that. Please find someone who is professionally trained and can help you.

in the meantime, keep on talking. please let me know how i can help.

a gentle cherishing hug,
susan