Hey
Big hugs to you
my heart goes out to you, chels
im so sorry for your loss,
your not pathetic at all, you will feel very strong emotions please allow yourself the time and space to express them.
we all are here to listen to you and support you,
is it ok for me to ask how long you have had your dog, im sure you also have some wonderfull memories to hold onto.
its really ok to cry, do not worry,
im also sorry youve had a difficult anniversary too , hold on
and know that we care, i care about you.
you will probably feel ok then struggle for a while yet be gentle and patient
hey im so sorry you didnt get to cuddle him, please remember the good times you shared the last time you saw him , hold onto those memories
hey weve no need to lie its the truth, you are not pathetic ok
hugs you again, please post as often as you feel about this
we are here, ok
Dave
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I just don't want anyone to die.
I'm so scared that this one person will, and yeah, I think that's why I'm so upset. I don't know. I miss my Nan so ****ing much too.
God, I'm so sorry Chels and as everyone has said above, the *last* thing you are is pathetic. I don't know what I'd do without our labrador Pippa, losing a dog you were close to is like losing a family member.
Please take care of yourself - we'll all be thinking of you :)
Hey
I hear you , about not wanting anyone to die, its ok
life is often unpredictable, yet i can understand you being scared
thats only natural, but try and focus on the good that this person is ok right now.
And yes of course you will miss your nan, it takes time and you mustnt rush things, hold onto the good memories of her and what youve shared
i hope they bring you comfort.
its ok to still be crying and being emotional, keep posting and expressing yourself and asking for support
we are here for you
hugs you
Dave
Ok and now you made me cry. Ive spoken to you, what, 4 times today on the phone and you havent said anything. WHY?
As mentioned you are far from pathetic. I think you are pretty fekkin fantastic actually and i love you more than 15 smarties, which, as everyone knows, is the biggest number in the whole world.
Love you lots
Matthew xxx
~Phoenix~ is my Little Sister of Awesomeness and Self-Delusion :P Bitter Angel is my Mitten Animad is my Top Trump All Im Living For - Is my beautiful and special daughter who isnt called Kim but will moan if i dont add her :P
totally not pathetic... dogs are part of the family...
I'll never forget one time, when things were very very bad with me and I was at home (parents) in between two hospital admissions. I was lying in my bed greeting my eyes out, late at night. My bedroom door pushed open and in wanders my wee dog who then curled up at the foot of my bed and stayed there til morning. And she NEVER did that. Still miss her :(
It's that very reason that is stopping me from getting a dog, losing it at some point in the future... Sorry about your recent loss, and your nan, I lost mine late last year too.
chels...youre not pathetic...not at all.
i will be devastated when something happens to my dog as i have been with my other dogs.
im really sorry for your loss. and it IS a loss.
much love.
xx
Losing a pet is often just as bad as losing a family member. I'm sure you know about the grief stuff so won't bother linking to them - might be worth a read if you haven't looked at it recently though.
You're certainly not pathetic - I've been crying tonight too because one of the horses that I look after lost her foal.....it's not even my pet and I didnt even know the foal. Crying over a dog that you dearly loved for years and were very attached to is never pathetic sweetheart.
I don't know you as well as everyone else, but that won't stop me giving you a cuddle.
I would be totally lost without my cats; they are crucial in keeping me going and losing a pet is a massive massive blow for anybody.
My wife has been raped and I have some small idea of how difficult it is to get through it. Nevertheless I also know that you CAN get through it given time and support.
Chels
again my heart goes out to you right now
hands you some tissues,
its ok to cry , i hear your pain, right now
im so sorry you have realised that you were raped
holds your hand if you will let me, sits near you,
and offers a gentle supportive hug,
please take care and i hope you can manage to seek support for this chels
please find the strength to think about reporting this if you can, with the support of a friend.
you allways have us here we care about you and support you
we are here for you allways Chels,
we will listen when you want to talk,
we will sit by you and share in your silence if you need us to,
we will sit by you and share your tears,
we will sit by you and comfort you
i hope im some comfort to you, allow others to comfort you too
HUGS YOU GENTLY AGAIN
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
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I just wanted to say if thats ok, with chels
I m sorry your wife was raped, chris i have some understanding of that, as my ex wife was sexually abused , i just wanted to say i hear you about how difficult it is , and offer my understanding and support .
As you say chris, yes chels you can get through this, as chris says
given time and support, which you have here chels,
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
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Chels you are a fab person!
Of course you deserve people to be nice to you.
You deserved tem to be nice to you from the start.
It sucks what happened. But I understand how you feel.
You know where I am if youwant to chat.
The way your feeling now, wont last forever hun.
Please take care.
Dont let him win you! xx
Chels
im sorry its made you cry more, i didnt mean to,
but what i say chels comes from my heart,
people are so nice to you because you are a wonderfull person here ,
you give so much and and are supportive and chearfull
and we care very much about you, you are a big part of the vets corner
as is matthew, you are a team.
and a big part of ryls.
and we wouldnt want it any other way , you have done so much to desrve this support, please just ask anyone else chels
they will remind you, ok
be gentle with yourself and believe what i say its true.
Hugs you gently again
Dave
" Use only that which Works, and take it from any place you find it" Im Honoured My RYL Sons are :)Atlantica, ,Saint of Misery, Stevevaijr
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