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Old 18-11-2013, 04:29 AM   #1
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I;m not ok

My ex and I broke up about a month ago and she got nasty. I decided to be nice and try to be friends with her and that turned out bad. she was messaging me saying she wanted to get back together and have the family we planned. I said it wouldn't work out and she has issues she needs to work on.. Well this is the response

I just want to say u blocking people over an over will never get u anywhere in life life dosnt come easy and noe that u have a job an are in the real world time to grow up crawl out from ur moms ass an grow up...plus I think u are an attention seeker I don't believe that some of the things u said happened to u ever did. An don't talk to any of my friends anymore including mike he dosnt like u none of them do an I was dating Ashley but brokeupywith her last night cuz I realized u to would be perfect for each other both crazy oh an yeah when I say don't message mike ever again I mean it me him an kyle all sat around laughing the other night about ur immaturity. Bye oh btw message Ashley u guys really should hook up
An I was serious about the smell swear over my gma


I am pmsing so this got to me more than it normally would. Well I ended up hurting myself tonight a little but it wasn't enough and I feel the need to hurt myself again. I can't tell my parents and I just got a new job so I did it where no one would be able to see it. I'm sort of afraid of going deep but at the same time am not.... My body has also been hurting me a lot more then usual... I just can't take this anymore... I posted this in another thread but could just really use support right now



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Old 19-11-2013, 05:26 AM   #2
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It sounds like she is hurt and taking it out as anger. It seems like you are correct that she has some things she needs to work out. I know how hard a break up can be. It sucks.

Just know you are doing something healthy for you. That is awesome! And physical pain sucks. Not to get too personal but I have my time and my back is acting up and it makes the other stuff seem that much harder. I plan on trying to take a hot shower to help me... Could that help you?

Be gently with yourself. You deserve a healthy relationship and are making steps towards that.

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Old 19-11-2013, 05:30 AM   #3
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Thank you.. I take hot showers when I can stand long enough for one or have the energy to... She has started to harasse me and called me via private number.... She threatened to get me kicked off fb wth the help of her friends but I haven't done anything to her friends so they can't report me on anything.... I'm so afraid I won't find someone to accept me for my health and scars and all but I know I have to be patient....



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Old 19-11-2013, 05:36 AM   #4
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I have a lovely woman in my support group with lupus who also has other issues. I also have a bunch of stuff too. We both have loving wonderfully supportive husbands. Right now look at it as working on yourself so that when a wonderful healthy woman comes along you are ready to recieve the love you deserve. Right now it is about you.
And facebook is not as cool as RYL ;)

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Old 28-11-2013, 12:27 AM   #5
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Old 17-12-2013, 03:26 AM   #6
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Well that was pretty nasty, I think you are better without someone like her in your life,even if it doesn't feel that way right now. Stay strong xx

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