back story and need help

teachit · 04-09-2013, 08:14 AM

So, I used to be here as teenytineytori. I have been away for quite a while.

These are the events in my life since June 2011. I was laid off in June. towards the end of June I found out my soon to be mother in law had CLL ( a type of leukimia) At the end of July a man who was like an uncle to me died suddenly. In the beginning of August I was married and moved in with my new in laws. My inlaws were having marriage problems and it was a terrible situation. I got a new job at a very demanding school where things were pretty crazy. In October, my godmother passed away from a type of intestinal cancer. In December my grandmother passed away from lung cancer. In February, my husband and I moved into our own place. We got a puppy. I was force transferred from my school in June. (which means I had a job just not in that building). We found out my mother in law also had ovarian cancer. At the end of July my husband tore his ACL and was in physical therapy 3 times a week. At the end of August my grandfather was in the hospital with a type of blood cancer, and because of his heart condition he cannot have a bone marrow transplant and every time he gets a transfusion it could cause a cardiac event and he has a DNR (Do Not Resusitate). My mother in law had to have major surgery and the cancer was more wide spread than we had thought. I started at a new school that was outrageously disorganized and stressful. My husband had to have surgery on his knee to repair the ACL. All through the school year he was going to physical therapy. Eventually I went to the doctor about my back pain and I had a slipped disk. As soon as he got done physical therapy I had to start. I was laid off. My mom was diagnosed with cancer on June 10, 2013 and died August 12, 2013. I still don't have a job. I have no full siblings. My parents aren't together. I have to take care of everything and I just got into a fight with my dad. I am drowning over here. I am on Cellexa because I still have prescription coverage but not health insurance.

I am just drowning.

teachit · 13-09-2013, 01:23 AM

Thank you for the hugs. I needed to know someone cared.

Ash* · 13-09-2013, 10:00 AM

Sounds like you've had a crazy time, and very stressful and emotionally draining.
I don't really haveuch to say, because you can't turn back time and being people back or stop people getting unwell. I just though I'd let you know I'd read and hope that you're okay because it's not nice to think noone cares.

I hope you have some sort of support from friends and family, when you're going through hell, keep going.

x

teachit · 14-09-2013, 09:41 PM

thank you very much.

crazykat · 21-09-2013, 01:29 PM

That sounds like an awful lot to deal with, I think anyone would struggle. I don't have advice but wanted to let you know I have read and care. How are you doing now?

teachit · 15-10-2013, 02:31 AM

I guess I am doing a bit better. I got my job back from being laid off so that is an improvement. My hubby also got a new and better job. So those things are better. My Mother in law seems to be doing pretty well. But honestly losing my mom just trumps it all. :( It sucks so hard

teachit · 25-10-2013, 04:42 PM

Thanks very much. Some things are harder but mostly things are pretty good.