Contains Suicide - Posting for "I Miss You" Please help him.
He randomly messaged me saying that he had been keeping up with my posts. But this guy really needs help.
He says he has a plan. He is telling me good bye. It's scaring me to death. He says he will be at peace soon.
Will anyone message him please? This is hard for me. And obviously he is going through some heavy ****.
Please help him because I'm all out of words for him.
I don't know if I'm even allowed to post this but I'm doing it anyway. If it's against the rules, feel free to delete but this guy needs help!
His name is "I Miss You". Someone help. I'm afraid he is serious. But he won't post. But maybe he will read this and if anyone has words for him, please share!
Damnit Drew (that's your name right?). LISTEN to me!
I'm trying to save your ****ing life. Sorry if the language offend you but that's just me.
I've been talking to you for a few days now. I understand some crazy **** has happened to you but you DON'T have to let it control you. YOU are in control.
THIS is NOT something you want to do. I know you don't. If you wanted to, you would have already done it! Now stop this nonsense. I have been where you are before. I understand it seems hopeless right now but it will change.
You never answered me about if you were seeing a therapist to help you with all this. Are you? I think it should be a must. Anyone would need help to get through this.
I am here to help you but you also have to help yourself. I don't mean to be harsh but you are scaring the **** out of me. You are a nice guy. You are intelligent. You know that you are irrational right now. I am here to help you. Please let me. You can get through this. I promise. I've gotten through it many times, that's why I know you can.
Are you will in therapy though at the moment? Rach is right, we can be here to support you but YOU have to help yourself too. Would you like to talk some more about what is making you feel so bad at the moment? Yes it is hard but I also believe that you have the strength to get through this. Keep fighting, you will get there.
"Recovery is something that you have to work
on every single day and it's
something that doesn't
get a day off."
Drew I think you need to see a therapist again. Your parents won't have to find out which I know you're concerned about, and you need the help.
You have at least three threads here with a lot of pain going around in circles. It's up to you now and you need to get some help and see a therapist or at least check in with a doctor about your feeling.
Pea soup has clearly been distressed by your words and it is unfair to leave little notes that sound like suicide notes around the boards. We want to help you but there is only so much you can do and now it's up to you to reach out and get the support you need.
Can you do that? I know it's hard but we'll be here for you.
Drew, your Pms are scaring me too. Pease get help for yourself, I don't want to lose you, none of us do, you are a valuable member of this board and a nice person besides. I don't know what to say to help and change your mind, I know it seems hopeless right now, but I too have been there several times and come through it, so there's no reason why you can't too. Please tell someone how you're feeling, there is always help out there for everyone and you don't deserve to die. Xx
Drew look!...I am not having ago or anything but look at how long you have been saying you are done ...and your still here ,which is great by the way ,but you need to try and help yourself too ,ive talked to you in chat a few times now and your suicidal all the time I talk to you ,when I ask you to go and get some help you refuse ,its good that your posting here for support and all that shizzle but there is only so much that we can do here ,you need to either go to your GP and tell them how you feel or find yourself some help
I am new to RYL but have read some of your posts and feel sad. I feel sometimes you post because you need a reason to stay alive? peoples replies give you reason?? maybe i'm wrong.
Everyone's right that counselling is the way forward. Even if it just helps a tiny bit, it's a little bit more than you had. I was always afraid to be honest with my counsellors but I'm still glad I went. Even if the only thing I got from it was to learn that I find it hard to be honest about real problems (which it's not) I still learnt that about me.
It can really help to make sense of it all and let go of a lot of pain. But sometimes it can just be for motivation or to talk about general coping mechanisms or things that make you happy. It could also give you purpose where you feel you have none
You can still be happy, you just have to work at it, where to some people it comes naturally. I know it doesn't seem fair. But maybe make a list of things you enjoy doing, that you could do more often and incorporate into your lifestyle. Even if it means joining a club, maybe you could meet some new people then too. I really wish I had a magic solution for you, I really do. X
My nephew's meant to drink water and go to bed at 7:30 but last week I gave him a giant chocolate milkshake and we danced around as rock stars until 10.
Maybe go against what you think is meant for you and try and something different.
Don't give up. What things used to make you happy?
People need to feel cared about themselves and they need someone to make them feel happy and to laugh. If you can improve your own outlook, then I'm sure you'll have no trouble being a friend to someone else xxx
I'd love to hear some of your lyrics. I love music of all kinds and admire anyone who writes. Please put some on here so I can read?? xx let me know xx
Anything else you like to do? What was the last thing to make you laugh or you enjoyed xx
Perhaps you can use the music/lyrics as a sort of an outlet. A way to get out all of those negative feelings but in a safe way. I agree with the above that it starts with you being kind to yourself first, to help others you need to help yourself first. You are stronger than you think, you can do this
"Recovery is something that you have to work
on every single day and it's
something that doesn't
get a day off."
Drew...*holds you close* that song is so sad and I can really feel your pain through your words. It's horrible when someone is taken from us. I don't know what to say to help with that, there are no words really. But I am here for you, and I care, ok. X
Thank you so much for sharing that with me. It was very touching and sad.
I think you should start to write again. I'd like to hear something that tells me a bit about a happier time before this person died. I think if you connect with that it would be nice to express it. If I died I would like to think my loved ones told people the happy things they remember about me, happy days, happy stories, they things they loved about my personality.
I know we don't know each other but I would love to hear a funny or happy story about your time with this person?? or something that make this person a special one.
I love my nephew because he's so funny. When he was potty training he got a sticker for using the potty. One day I got up to use the toilet, when I came back he gave me a sticker and told me well done. He new he was cracking a joke and thought he was hilarious. I'll always remember that about him xx
Thank you again for the song. It was really emotive xxxxxxxxx
