i dont know what to do! :(

[iloverats]

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[Ami]

Hi, long time

Sorry you feel this way. I think you should really try to engage, for yourself and for your baby too. Although its hard, talking will get easier once to build up a trusting relationship with EIP.

Also, I would take advantage of the help EIP are offering, because when you come to the end of the 3 years and move onto CMHT, they offer barely nothing. I've been with them for over a year, and never had a CPN, nor been offered therapy and my care co-ordinater is rubbish. However with the EIP team (assuming its the same team) had CBT, a CPN who came to see me at work, and was good and a support worker too.

Maybe write stuff down and show them. I do that sometimes, and its easier than talking.

take care xxxxx

[random.swirls]

Im 2 years into my time with the EIP and have been engaging with them and had a lot of support. It sounds like you need the support at the moment so could you ring up your care coordinator? You could maybe show her this post? Then together you could work out what the next step is?

[pea soup]

hi there,

I understand what you are going through. I didn't know how to do therapy. I didn't know how to engage. But I figured out a way that worked for me.

when I saw my therapists or docs, I simply told them to ask me questions and I would answer because I didn't know what to say on my own. maybe you could try that. it simplifies matters and takes some stress off of you.

hope this helps a bit.

xxxxx

[iloverats]

hi ami i tried to find you on fb a little while ago but it appears you dont have it anymore or not your propper name? :)

thanks for the advice, im seeing her again end of the month so i guess i'll have to tell her how i feel at least, and see where we go from there.

x