Im sorry I am really angry so please do excuse me!
But really, why do people make a post that, the poster knows is going to get to people and upset them, because its a complete joke, in which we reply to it saying how offensive it is blah blah and then they delete it so basically a mod doesnt see it, and then makes a whole new thread!!
I got in trouble last night for being honest with this person in asking why she made a second thread and that it was making me angry and because mods hadnt seen the thread she had deleted, it was me that got in trouble, which resulted in amazing consequences on my body!!
I have seen worse replies than mine to some threads. Your all just gunning for me.
"Finally - you must not be generally offensive, unpleasant, argumentative, rude, abusive or bullying. Ganging up on members, driving them out of chat or off threads, or just being angry and mean to anyone on RYL without good reason"
I had perfectly good reason for being angry - tip sharing is against the rules!!
Sorry, I misread and thought the thread was still there. Mods can still see deleted threads, but if you post report your own thread and explain the situation in that post report, they will look for you.
I understand you're angry Sammi, but if you have an issue it might be better putting this person on ignore or if you PM a forum mod who can sort this out for you. If there are rules being broken by this person they will be dealth with.
I don't know if this is a stupid idea or not as I don't know the circumstances, but if someone posts an offensive thread, maybe you could do a screenshot and report it that way? Then you have evidence. I know it's difficult when you can't predict if that member will delete the thread or not. But it's an option perhaps.
Yes tip sharing is against the rules and your post reports regarding the issue were invaluable.
The issue arises when people dont leave it at that, and dont leave us to do our jobs. if a post upsets you, and you have reported.. try not to look at the thread again, rather than replying with comments that in themselves break the rules.
We can see deleted posts, and all the comments within them, please dont think you were the only one contacted regarding the issue.
Sammi hun, other people may have been contacted, but that wouldnt be made public, just like no one would have known that you were contacted except for the mods, if you hadnt posted it here.
no one is gunning for you sammi
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I'm fine! Totally fine. I don't know why it's coming out all loud and squeaky, 'cause really, I'm fine!
