Triggering (SI) - arrrg

[fairybeleiver]

im pissing myself off now y cant i jus stop
i havent cut for 7 weeks and now i got the blade out of a sharpener with a spoon just so i cud
and i swore that i wudnt
its not like i want ot stop really i jus dont want to hurt my boyfriend he took my blades away and i even asked him if i cud jus cut tiny scratchs but no no im stressing with a blade

sorry
chelsie

[cutupangel09]

I have also asked my boyfriend if I could cut. Realize he doesn't want to see you hurt yourself he isn't going to give you permission. 7 weeks is a long time to go so don't be so hard on yourself. Maybe talk this out with your boyfriend and maybe not cut if talking about it helps. good luck.

[spiffykt]

First: 7 weeks is fantastic, congratulations!

It's really, really hard to stop for other people - Maybe trying to come up with some reasons to stop SI-ing for yourself will make it easier than not doing it just because your boyfriend says not to? Also, make sure he understands that it's really hard to just up and quit, and that you need his support and understanding even if you've slipped up, because that's kind of part of the process.

Sorry if this was absolutely no help, good luck hun!

<3 Katie

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