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Old 20-07-2011, 02:22 AM   #1
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I just need to talk.

First, please don't say I'm over-reacting.

But, my dad, who is my grandfather who adopted me, with my gandma, is belittleing me. It isn't a one time thing, it's whenever I suggest something or just talk to my mom. Then, my aunt(Adoptived sister) doesn't make anything better, she screams at me, saying I'm ungrateful, and spoiled, just because I cry now whenever my dad says anything to me. Then today, I thought it had gone on long enough, and I told him he treated me and talked to me like I'm 3, and like I'm slow, and stupid. Then I started crying, and he called me a dumb and stupid, and said I needed to learn not to be a baby. I tried to say something and my aunt started screaming at me. My only friend in the house is my mom. Then I tried to go up to the house, my aunt kept yelling at me, I just kept saying, "Please leave me alone," or "just drop it," then I finally said, "Shut up." Her responses kept being: "Your a spoiled brat, no one loves you, No, I'm never gonna stop." When I told her to Shut Up, my dad told me to come back down to our barn, and was yelling at me saying not to tell her to shut up, and was saying more crap. Then, after that was over, I went to my mom, the only person I can talk to, was being talked to by my aunt, (who once again, also screams and is rude to her own mother.) Saying how bad I was, how ungrateful I was and spoiled, I tried to explain my case, and I couldn't because she kept saying, "that's a lie, no, that's not true." Now, I'm just sitting in my room, typing this.

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Old 20-07-2011, 11:00 AM   #2
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Your family situation sounds rather confusing and whatever has lead to this has probably caused a lot of stress resulting in effecting peoples tempers. Can you talk to your mum about how they're treating you and maybe ask her to have a quite word.
Or you could talk to them individually and ask why they feel the way they do (why they think you're ungrateful & spoiled) and see if you can do anything to change their opinions of you?
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