I've been really confused with my sexuality recently. So basically, here's how it all started.
I was out with a few of the lads and a few of the girls one friday night and I got plastered, all I remember from that night is walking off with a few people and getting dragged away by this girl, she's a lesbian or bi I think, I'm not sure I don't remember what she said she was. But yeah anyway, we went off with a few lads and next thing I know we're both having the old 'tonsil tennis' game - what a dodgy name lol. Anyway, I always thought that I was straight, cause I'm like seeing someone at the minute, and he knows what me and this girl got up to and he thinks its okay, like just cause we were drunk and that, the thing is though, I enjoyed it. But I haven't actually told this girl or my boyf that. Should it be something I should tell them both or just leave it?
Last edited by lower than myself : 08-09-2007 at 09:06 PM.
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This may sound silly but try and imagine yourself in the same situations with the girl as you would with the guy and see how it makes you feel.... If the idea excites you might possibly be bi-curious or bisexual..... What do you feel liek when you remember that night?
This may sound silly but try and imagine yourself in the same situations with the girl as you would with the guy and see how it makes you feel.... If the idea excites you might possibly be bi-curious or bisexual..... What do you feel liek when you remember that night?
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I haven't actually thought about it like that. But I'm defo gonna give it a shot and see. But at the minute I've got too mucuh going on what with my mum and that falling out with me. So I'll get back to you on that.
'All this for a damn princess'
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I think many people have had situations like this and it doesn't always means your gay/bi or whatever. But if your thinking of it then explore what is in your mind. there is nothing wrong in experimenting. And nothing wrong in whatever you realise about yourself or not.
I want to kiss the bottom of the ocean before I burst through its surface into the sunlight, otherwise I will always be wondering about what was left unseen at the bottom
i'm tired of chasing my dreams. i'm just gonna ask where they're going, and hook up with them later.
my whole life has been. running with the wind. and playing with the cowards. it’s so hard to see. i’m fractured within. a poet in a window. we’re bastards and thieves. we’re lovers and saints. we’re holding on to mourning. and in the shadows i will be. until the sunlight melts away. until we tire of murder...fill me up with love...say goodbye when you leave. remember to breath. remember to listen. it’s getting harder to be. the son you want of me. the son i’ll never be.
do what has been said before. think about doing intimate stuff with a girl and if that repulses you or you cant imagine it then. maybes your just bi curious. . but there is no big hurry. and its not abnormal to think and enjoy kissing the same sex :]
at the end of the day we all do weird things when we're drunk, and as for it feeling good? it's a physical sensation, doesn't have to matter what sex it's coming from, it'll still feel good. . . oh and yes. . . i am open minded :-P
at the end of the day does it really matter. people make so much of a deal out of sexuallity these days. I mean its isnt all black and white. You can like girls to a certain extent and still be strait. I know i like girls, guys, whatever is lying around but i would perfer to have a long loving relationship wiht a guy as a partner rather than a girl so i consider myself strait.
