Relationship Concerns * ADULT *

strawberry11 · 04-05-2011, 10:44 PM

So my boyfriend and I are sexually active, however its a long distance relationship. He drives a truck for a living and is gone a good time before he is back home. We have been in the relationship for a year and a half and because of that he thinks I should know what he wants. Should I? I mean this made me really really upset and almost triggering. Now he said he can't do this right now. I haven't seen him in about three weeks or more and I am missing him terribly. This argument thing is not helping me. I don't know what to do. Help.

Antebellum · 04-05-2011, 11:27 PM

I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 5years and I still don't know what she wants sometimes! I'm not a psychic. No one should expect you to just 'know' what they want and you shouldn't feel like your in the wrong if you don't.

Long distance relationships can be very hard. I am in one and I only really see my girlfriend when we're at Uni. The only thing I can really suggest is to have a good long conversation with him and tell him how your feeling, communication is key to a LD relationship.

If you ever want to talk to someone who understands my inbox is always open.

Rhian xx

strawberry11 · 04-05-2011, 11:40 PM

Thanks. That helps a lot. I've had some time to think and I think his biggest issue is that he is on a truck with a trainee in CA (on the other side of the US from me) tired, horny, and without me. That is what I'm going to leave it as as of now. That is until I talk to him about this as of right now he said he can't do this right now which I can understand b/c his trainee is on the truck with him as well. AHG!! I'm just already mentally and emotionally drained before he dropped this on me. Again thanks.