Please. Help. Me.
My dad, he's drunk, he just turned up in a acab. he rang me & said 'helen can you hear that car coming round the corner?.. thats me in a taxi, im going in now. let me in helen. i'm going to rip your fucking head off'
im shaking
pettrified
i had to lock all the doors & shout at him through the window till he left
my mums out to get electric
fuck
help?
i want to die.
hes going to come back & hes going to hurt me, im scared
hes gone, mum just came back, she locked everything (i locked most but one door is too big >.<) im just so shocked & anxitey everywhere & ahh. *clings*
Make a note of this incident, so that if in the future you need to provide evidence that this is ongoing harrassement you'll have details for the police already.
I'm glad your mum's back safely.
For those doubts that swirl all around us
For those lives that tear at the seams
We know… we’re not what we’ve seen
For this dance we’ll move with each other
There ain’t no other step than one foot
Right in front of the other
I am glad that your Mum has come back and locked the doors.
If that happens again, I would just not answer the door. If your dad does not go away or becomes a nuisance, I would phone the police. At the end of the day, even though he is your dad, if he is being abusive, that is the best course of action.
Wannabe CPN : -)
"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson "I hear those voices that will not be drowned" Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
I just wanted to give you a big big *hug* ist not good he's doing this to you, im glad your mum is home and i agree that you should make note or ring the police *hugs some more* im thinking of you xx
“There is no sun without shadow, and it is essential to know the night.”
im so sorry that he behaved like that towards you Hel.It must have been so scary.
What your Dad said and did was really wrong.You are being really brave and i hope you feel at least a bit safer now your Mums back.
Hel if you dont mind me asking was there any indication your fear might behave like this in any way?Has anything happened [not that anything happening would make it ok but i just wondered]?Has he behaved like this before at all?i understand if you dont want to answer.
Thinking of you.
xx
Last edited by Sleepless123 : 04-04-2011 at 10:55 PM.
Reason: To add a question
i do not always manage to be around but i wish you all the very best - love and luck to you all!
He's always been a 'drinker' & aggressive & sometimes viloint & also suffers from mental health difficulties, along with my mum (which doesn't help), (they've also broken up for a year & he now has a new family with a new fiancée.)
Oh *huggles*. That must have been very scary. What does his new finacee think about this? You mentioned 'family' - are there children involved? Are they safe with him?
I understand what you must be going through - my dad was abusive too, and liked his drink, but it's important to remember that you're safe now. If he comes back, or you have any more trouble, don't hesitate to call the police. They're there to help you.
It doesn't matter where you come from; it matters where you go.
No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
but we'll have all the best stories to tell.
