very very few things are ever entirely one person's fault. she had a role in this as well. she probably could have communicated more if she was feeling lonely.... lots and lots of things can and do contribute to people feeling stressed. again, its is probably lots of things other than you.
even though you're back with your parents, are you still getting out of the house and doing things? seeing friends? its important not to isolate yourself, even though it is so easy to do sometimes.
you don't need to put it all behind you right away. but you do need to not fixate on it. you've got to keep going with your life and it will eventually get better. i heard someone say that when a long relationship ends it can be a grieving process. maybe thinking about it like that can help. as a process, not an all of a sudden epiphany sort of thing. processes take time, and emotions may swell sometimes, but eventually you'll move on.
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