i cant stop crying. is that bad. i dont know what else aint got noone else to turn to. i want to cut. i want all the fighting to stop. If anyone has seen the video to frankie j"'s daddy's little girl then they should know that i should play her part. thats what is going on with me. I am to blame for the divorce. i was the one who didnt behave. i was the reason for all the fights. When ever they fought my name wa always mentioned. Why did i do it mum asks all the time. Why did you make daddy go away you bad girl. i dont know what to do. any kind words will be aprechieated.
Hey darlin!x! I cant really say much but just try not to cut. There are so many other positive things that you could do! I have never seen that video but you really shouldnt blame yourself for the divorce happening. Were all here for you whenever you need support! Im so sorry that Im not much help. PM me if ya ever need ta chat... Stay positive!
Hugs! I doubt it's all your fault. It's prolly none of your fault. It's convenient to blame things on other people. Can't be because you were bad. I was a terror, and my folks are still together. Please try to calm down, an not think about cutting. *holds the box of tissue for you* Be safe, be well. If you wanna talk about it more, feel free to im/pm me. I'm usually around somewhere.
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hey, everyone here will always be here to help, just try your hardest not to cut. its really not your fault your parents are divorced, its never the childs fault. they must have had issues of their own to cause them to slip up, and nothing you did will have changed that. please dont blame yourself, youve done nothing wrong. plenty of parents split up whos children dont SH, plenty of parents dont split up whos children do SH. theres no connection. be safe, pm me if you want to.
wish i had some good advice for you
its not your fault, no matter what they say
sending lots of love and hugs your way
xxxxx
In loving memory of Alison.... I'll never know what it was like to be her. But i know what it's like to wanna die. How it hurts to smile. How you try to fit in but you can't. How you hurt yourself on the outside to try and kill the the thing on the inside" Girl Interrupted
Hi honey
Please take everyone's word for it,divorce is never the child's fault.Adults sometimes can't face the fact that a relationship is not working because of them and blame innocent parties.Don't listen to any mean words from your parents.Divorce is a time when everyone is going through a rough time and words are said without thinking.I know it doesn't seem like it,but things will be better,it's just a matter of time.Be strong!
We did not change as we grew older; we just became more clearly ourselves.
We'll love again,we'll laugh again.It's better off this way.
Sometimes, parents like to blame their kids because it's easier than acknowledging that you did wrong. It's not your fault, no matter what. Divorce is between the parents, not the parents and the kids. It's unfortunate that the kids are involved, but it's a fact.
