nurse: how is your eating?
me: i'm just about to meet a gp that deals with eating disorders
nurse: how much do you weigh?
me: "*("&&("
nurse: *raises eyebrows* you think that's underweight?
me: no, i know i'm overweight.
nurse: you can't have an eating disorder at that weight. or maybe you do, you look like you have that compulsive over eating thing.
Love, I'm so sorry that they said that. I really am. That must be horrible...
*holds you if it's okay*
Please,please don't let this ignorant **** make things worse for you. Is she worth that much? Is she worth not eating for? Hurting yourself over? NO, she isn't. She's ignorant, arrogant & so far up herself, & clearly doesn't know anything about ED's.
Please darling, please don't let this b*tch do this.
You could make a complaint against her, I would, it might teach her to be more considerate & to actually read the FACTS about ED's before blurting her gob like that.
Talk to us, what's going on through your mind right now?
Talk about it, but don't let her get to you like that, don't let her make your ED worse, she is not worth it in the slightest.
xx
Much love to you, my heart really goes out to you.
Chels babe, want me to kill them? 'Fact I'm just gonna do it anyway.
What the hell.
Sweetheart, please please, don't let that pathetic retarded knob head's comments drag you down, seriously. I'm already so worried about you & now its just >.<
I think that you should be putting a complain in, there is no way that she can say this.
Like sar said, don't let them get away with making you feel the need to hurt yourself.
You need food, chelsea. I just want to kill her actually.
So we should talk about this on skype.
You're beautiful & lots of people see & think that, I know you're struggling right now. I know you are. But you deserve so much more & that includes support, not uneducated nurses -_-.
Some people don't really know much this, even those in the medical profession. You shouldn't let her get to you, and I would also consider putting in a complaint. Why did she need to know that anyway?
Did you go see the doctor? Was that more positive?
What the frig. That doctor obviously has zero training in eating disorders. I honestly would report her for saying that. If she's said that to you, I'm sure she's said stuff to other people with eating disorders. And what she said is really damaging to you and very unfair.
I mean you know that the only eating disorder that is diagnosed with weight in mind is anorexia...that leaves bulimia and EDNOS, along with overeating disorders. What she said really pisses me off. I'm sorry you had to hear that. Just realize that she is an ass who sucks at her job.
Keep that appointment to see the ED specialist. Please don't let what one dumbass doctor said to you put you down more.
*hugs*
Jess
xo
I wanna stay inside all day
I want the world to go away
*hugs i agree with what has been said above
she is out of oder nd what sje said was lies i would put in a compliant
sorry some stupis person made u feel crap
but dont belive her xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
young girl its alright your tears will soon dry your soon be free to fly
she's falling from grace , she's all over the place..............
*gasp* Oh my Goodness she had absoultly no right to say that to you. She doesnt know your history, she doesnt know you- ignore that comment, please dont let her be the cause of you not eating. Hugs
The BRAVEST thing
I ever did was CONTINUING MY LIFE when I wanted to die.
Wow, thank you so much for the love & support, guys...
To be honest, I'm not doing well at all. I'm suffering the after-effects of an overdose (my own fault, I know, & I went to hospital & stuff) & I'm not eating... I can't.
I meet the GP on Monday & I just... I'm such a mess. I feel really sick/dizzy *_*
Sweetie, you need to eat something. You will end up passing out. Your body needs to recover from the OD for starters, not eating won't help, it will make it worse, your body won't be able to flush it out if you don't get some nutrients in you. Please eat something. Anything. Safe foods? You need to get something in you. It's not bad, I promise.
i have had the same issues. i even had after telling a doctor that i was restricting and purging again that i needed to loose weight as my BMI was at the high end of normal.
so all i can say is make the complaint. it was unprofessional, care free attitude without consideration for your mental wellbeing.
Just so many confusing feelings & thoughts. I want to lose weight so much. I thought I was getting in control but I think it's in control of me... & I'm so nervous about seeing the GP on Monday :|
Goodness! I'd say the nurse was pretty ignorant... sure it wasn't pleasant to hear
I'm glad to hear you're getting help :) I really hope tht goes well for you
*hugs*
"God take me, because I hate me" -Underoath
We are male and female. We are artists, athletes, and students. We have depression, PTSD, eating disorders, bipolar disorder, or maybe no diagnosis at all. Some of us were abused, some not. We come from all walks of life and can be any age. We are every race or religion that you can think of. Our common link is this: We are in pain. We self-injure. And we are not freaks.
Just make sure when you see your GP you are honest with them Chelsea.
Tell them everything, what you feel about everything. Life, yourself, people, the world.
Everything, just be totally honest babe.
If they're cunts.
I will come. Find you. And kill them.
But I need you to try nom something because me & zoe need you alive so we can live in your house & ground you & tell you when you can have boys in your room and stuff.
Yuh.
