WIJG on anti-d's and councelling (update)

[Alchemyst]

things havent been too great recently for both of us. DH and I finally had to go see the Dr. She put hubby on citalopram (for now) and offered me anti-d's but i refused as still breastfeeding of an evening. we also are both getting referred for councelling. hubby's will come through first as he is considered more urgent whereas mine could take many weeks (months?). It feels like a step in the right direction.

We are also having to majorly organise our finances as i was close to going bankrupt but hopefully that disaster is currently averted.

other than that life goes on; our wonderful beautiful daughter continues to be the light of my life and my reason to put on my (now cracking) mask and make as if everything is alright. she is practically running and clmibing, she is communicating far more with words like "here" and "there" and "again" and "yeah". so very exciting.

lots of love to you all xxx alchy

[Merc]

ALCHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*runs to hug* :o)!!
SOOOOOOO good to see you.
Good for you both for looking for help. It's so hard isnt it sometimes? I'm proud of you; you're a fighter, i know that.
I'm glad she has put WIJG (give hima hug form me)on some meds and he is going to be seen to. I hope you dont have to wait long hunni.*fingers crossed*
Your little one is lookinmg adorable! They are soo much fun (and tuiring lol) at that age. :o)
Again, good for you for knowing you both need some extra help and for getting it. Be proud hun. I hope a real smile can soon replace the mask.
You know where i am if you need (although i may not have internet for a bit lol)
luv ya lots
*m,ore hugs*
romp

[Mandimoo]

hey alchy, glad you're both getting help, is couple's councelling an option? sort of work through your issues separatley with a councellor and together/issues you have with each other with someone else? mand x

[Nat]

Alchy that is great to hear - I am so glad that you both went to the DR - as always you now where I am and that Im only a PM away
xxxx

[Merc]

just wondering how things are sweetheart??
let us know when you get the chance
here if you need
luv ya
romp