best friend AWOL

[crimsondrummer]

hey this is going to sound insanely childish but I really need advice.
my best friend has barely spoken to me in over 2 weeks.
we always talk every week even at college and there is 5 hrs between us then. shes spending alot of time with her boyfriend but theyve been together 6 months, if theyd just got together id get it, also like shes made no time for me.
Shes my best friend and I no shes not doing this to spite me and it isnt intentional.
Im very bad at being mad with people, the second i see them im so happy I put it out of my head.
so i guess what im asking is wen i finally see her do i tell her how upset shes made me? ive had a very bad few weeks and really could of done wit her around. I feel like shes deciding wat weeks she wants to be my friend, friendship doesnt work like that.
im ranting I no but, how should I bring it up? I suck at confrontation

[Raven]

i dont know....if it were me i would be tempted to give her a taste of her own medicine. next time she decides you are worth her time, ditch her. she might get the message.

or you could just send her a text/email or something asking why you havent seen much of her

[Bacchus]

I would tend not to do the same thing back. It's just not on the path towards goodness. I get into my life and forget to reach out to people. I love my parents dearly, but I forget. Then after a few weeks I feel very bad for not calling, and then I avoid them because I am bad at confrontation as well. Then I go months. It is bad of me I know, but it could be the same thing with her. She just got busy, and then time slipped away from her. I think you might want to just say she is human, time got away from her, forgive, and hope she is as quick to forgive you next time you mess up. Just an idea from an old guy, but maybe worth a thought.
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