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Old 22-04-2010, 01:45 PM   #1
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the right word to use

so, when a cut is open or fresh, its a cut.

and scars are the permanant mark left behind afterwards, though not always, and take years to fade, and are mostly white.

so if i've got a cut, and it heals, but its not a scar yet, what is it?

because RYL is all like, no pics of cuts, and tag *scars visible* if you post a pic where you can see a scar. far do's, and i have scars that are yeahs old from falling off a skateboard etc. im looking at my healed cuts, and i dont know if i can take a picture of my badly drawn butterfly for the butterfly project, to show how bad i draw with my left hand and that i managed to wait long enough to draw a butterfly, because they arent cuts anymore, but they definately arent scars yet. i dont think theyll scar. i hope not, lol.

so yeah. whats the word for the marks of a closed and healing cut, that isnt a scar, and can i take a picture of this butterfly because its HILARIOUS. no shouting at me, please. ive had enough of "these are the rules and you are bad" type stuff.



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Old 22-04-2010, 02:44 PM   #2
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its up to you to decide if you think it is a triggering picture and if it is put a trigger warning on it...if the mods arent happy then they will remove it





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Old 22-04-2010, 05:16 PM   #3
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Old 22-04-2010, 05:20 PM   #4
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You could edit the pic as well if you think that would be better.





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Old 22-04-2010, 06:23 PM   #5
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I think it would probably still be classed as a fresh cut.




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Old 22-04-2010, 10:28 PM   #6
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I would call it a wound probably.



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Old 22-04-2010, 11:00 PM   #7
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I think perhaps it's still going to be quite triggering, therefore inappropriate, therefore removed. Perhaps you could draw your butterfly somewhere else where there isn't a scar and take a photo of it there?

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Old 23-04-2010, 10:47 AM   #8
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The butterfly project said to draw it where you cut to discourage you.

Thanks though, I won't show you my appalling drawing, no worries XD



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Old 24-04-2010, 11:38 PM   #9
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Like i said you can edit it and cover up the scars, alot of people do that.





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Old 25-04-2010, 11:33 AM   #10
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theyre not really scars. i dont really scar visibly, im pretty pale. theyre kinda more like healed cuts.

but its not like i NEED to show people my bad drawing, it was just an amusing aside, and im not gonna do a million things to post one pic XD its a grey area, so ill just avoid it in case.



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Old 25-04-2010, 11:36 AM   #11
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Old 25-04-2010, 11:41 PM   #12
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A cut which has totally healed over regardless of the colour is a scar. A cut that hasn't is either a fresh/ open/ healing cut (or wound) or a scab. Scars aren't necessarily white; many are pink or even red

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Old 26-04-2010, 02:02 PM   #13
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I find that photos' can be easily edited.



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Old 26-04-2010, 09:53 PM   #14
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by now the butterflies have faded away. 1 week free =]



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Old 26-04-2010, 10:49 PM   #15
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congrats on your accomplishment




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Old 27-04-2010, 12:02 PM   #16
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thank you =]



So if you wanna burn yourself remember that
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Old 27-04-2010, 04:59 PM   #17
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Congratulations on one week! That's amazing!

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Old 27-04-2010, 10:17 PM   #18
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new caterpillars today, lol, just to remind me =] its a week and two days, but only of cutting. misc SI is um... a few hours. haha.



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Old 28-04-2010, 02:38 AM   #19
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Even just getting cutting under control for a week and two days is great! You should be proud of yourself. :) I'm glad you found something that seems to help a little.

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