Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - He's being Charged..

~*Dare to Dream*~ · 09-04-2010, 09:05 AM

So I found out this morning that he's being charged with 1 account of r***.

He needs to go to the magistrates court on the 20th April to basically be told that he needs to be tried at the crown court in front of a Jury.

I don't know how to feel..

Merc · 10-04-2010, 06:25 AM

I cant tell you how to feel, but I can tell you, whatever you feel is right for YOU.
Does anyone know whats happening with all this? Someone you can talk to, IF you want to?
Still think you have done the right thing and you are really brave, Ann.
here if you need
xxx

Mandimoo · 10-04-2010, 05:57 PM

fantastic ann, each victory is a small step forward for you. its not over yet, but you are one step closer to him being off the streets and away from you. love you mand x

crazykat · 11-04-2010, 05:19 AM

Hun there is no right or wrong way to feel with this, whatever you are feeling is right. You did the right thing hun, well done

~*Dare to Dream*~ · 12-04-2010, 01:25 PM

After finding out, I went back to the doctors, Im back on the antidepressants again. Im going to try and stick with them this time. They are helping.

I guess reality hit - Hard.

If I hadn't gone to the doctors I'd have probably done something incredably stupid.

It just feels like I am on trial as well, and everything. Going to court. Im going to end up being judged as well - as its my word against his. It's Just not fair.

Its going to be terrifying.

But Until I know the dates I am going to try and keep taking my meds & not let it take over my life again.

However, I am so scared.

crazykat · 12-04-2010, 01:28 PM

Hun I understand how hard this all will be will for you but remember we are here to support you through this. You will make it through. Take care
kat xxx

Rain Keeper · 13-04-2010, 10:26 PM

Stand strong and know who is right here. YOU ARE.
Stand strong and know who is strong here. YOU ARE.
Stand strong and know who is with you. YOU ARE

I believe in you. Did you see what you wrote?

If I hadn't gone to the doctors I'd have probably done something incredably stupid.

YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! From reporting to sticking it out. No matter how hard it was, YOU did it! And you followed up with taking care of you by going to the doctor.

Please keep on the meds....especially if they are working for you.

I smile because of you.

I am proud of you.

Love,
Rain

Mandimoo · 15-04-2010, 11:26 PM

hey ann, glad to see you are fighting for yourself. well done for going to the drs. stick with the meds, love you xxxx

14MillionMiles · 16-04-2010, 11:23 PM

Hang on in there. You can do it!! xx

~*Dare to Dream*~ · 19-04-2010, 06:59 PM

I don't know if I can do this anymore. I don't know what to do.
I have a meeting with the police officer tomorrow, Ben's got to arrange a meeting to go through bits on his statement.

H* is going to make a statement as well.

My mind is going to explode. Its just all too much.
As well as the thought of my previous medical history being advertised. I don't know what else to do any more.
Im scared if i start, i wont stop.

Rain Keeper · 22-04-2010, 09:53 PM

How are you doing Ann?

14MillionMiles · 22-04-2010, 10:18 PM

So proud of you, sending all my support x