Argh boys..help! Lol

NegativeCreep · 04-03-2010, 01:38 AM

I went out and got slightly drunk n got some lads number, he kept textin so i went to meet him, nothing there no spark etc but he keeps textin i keep saying that i dont want to go out, i dont have time- which i dont unless i push to make some, and why would i for someone im not really into.

He isnt getting the hint, and believe me ive hinted, am i realllllly horrible if i just say look i dont like you?? Its driving me mad ontop of everything else i cant take it!!

Fry · 04-03-2010, 01:53 AM

yeah just be blunt if he's not getting it.

OutOfTheWoods11 · 04-03-2010, 01:55 AM

This should probably have been in General Support and Advice, for the future.

However, perhaps you aren't communicating with him the right way. Maybe you aren't showing that you don't like him enough. Woul you want to be just friends? If so maybe tell him that,

NegativeCreep · 04-03-2010, 02:01 AM

Sorry didnt think of it as i needed support just someone to kick this person up the butt lol.

Well i told him wed just be friends not that i really want to- NOTHING in common!!! Then i just lost my temper and said some rude things...oops. Anyway now hes emailed saying all this rubish omg ive met him twice. Stalker!! Eeeek.....now i shall just ignore!!!!

Thanks :D

Fry · 04-03-2010, 02:03 AM

i hope he backs off soon..

Belt · 04-03-2010, 02:13 AM

Why don't you say, "Yeah I can't go out tomorrow-I'm going out with a guy I really like" He'll back off!

NegativeCreep · 04-03-2010, 02:27 AM

HAHAHA LIKE IT!!!

user_name · 04-03-2010, 04:08 AM

Or just ignore him. They get the hint in the end.

Snow White. · 04-03-2010, 04:33 AM

^Happened to me, I gave this guy a chance thought at first and it didn't work out, so I just let the conversations fizzle, he got the hint.

BelleRaven · 04-03-2010, 05:39 AM

I had the same problem just a year ago. being shy and alll I had a hard time just saying i wasn't into him. after A while i just decided to be blunt and honest and told him not to flatter himself and i'd date him when pigs can fly.

sometimes being nice isn't enough,you got to be more assertive(but not rude) and sometimes just being completely honest (rude or not) to get the message across. don't let someone push you around or bother you.

matt1904 · 04-03-2010, 03:08 PM

I would ignore him completely, or be very cold towards him, short sharp answers. Telling him you're going out with another guy, would work wonders if I was a stalker i leave you alone. He sounds a bit of a freak seeing you've met him twice. Good luck x

Daryl · 04-03-2010, 11:13 PM

Say, ''Look ive tried to be nice about this but you seem to be a ****ing dumb idiot, do you not understand what im saying to you? you no good muggy ****ing ****.''

Say it just like that. You should see results straight away