Triggering (SI) - I hate that she triggered me. (*Poss suicide trig*)

Vampiric Addiction · 07-08-2007, 10:46 PM

My ex's current girlfriend sent me a really abusive and personal (even mentioning my uncle who died and I'm still hevaily greiving for) message on myspace and one bit was 'go slit your wrists' and how no one would miss me, even referring to the 'right way to do it', or suggesting i OD.

I'm fortunate enough not to be suicidal - if only for the fact that I couldn't bare the thought of what it'd do to my parents - but she triggered me on the front of SI and I feel like utter crap.

I'm so angry my ex told her all of my issues and stuff, and gave her so much ammo against me, but I'm more angry with myself for letting her trigger me.

Infatuated · 07-08-2007, 11:03 PM

What she did is horrible and completely inexcusable.
You have no reason to be angry at yourself so try not to beat yourself up over this.
I'm really sorry that your ex told her all this stuff and I think that, if you can, you should talk to them and let them know how this girl is treating you. Because it's disgusting and could possibly put you in danger.

Try to fight off any urges that you might have right now and keep yourself distracted. We are here to help and support you right now.
Stay strong and take care.
Xx

breakdownx · 07-08-2007, 11:55 PM

that's awful and completely out of order.

it may sound easier than it is but you just have to ignore people like that and cut them out of your life if you can. block her on myspace and if she ever tries to contact you again i suggest you delete it without reading. her opinion isn't important, what is important is you getting better.

i hope you're ok xxx

OneLonelyTree · 08-08-2007, 12:10 AM

Wow. Thats really unbelievable. I've never understood how people can be that intentionally cruel. It's hard but you have to ignore her. She's obviously very insecure to attack you like that for no reason, don't let her problems bring you down. I agree with Infatuated, talk to your ex(if your still "friendly" or talking) and let him know that it's not ok to talk about your issues with other people. Hope your ok!

Izzy