boyfriend:(

[mystery]

hi everyone,
well i just wondered if maybe u could give me some advice or support..im really missing my x boyfriend:(..we broke up almost 6 mths ago, he has someone else and im just really missing him, when does it get easeir?, i still love him so much and he hurt me really bad:(
i just want him back

hey mystery. im currently going through this for the second time at the moment so i know how you feel. having your heart broken or trust betrayed does hurt. especialy when you have other complications.
the only thing i find that lets me 'come up for air' when im feeling at the lowest is to go on a friend date with my best friend.
it sounds cheesy but spending all day doing things with someone you can trust helps so much in the long run. it makes you happier and gets you out and about to enjoy things without your ex.
dont do what i did the last time and shut yourself off or you cant really start feeling better.
hope i helped, this is my first post. feel free to email me if you want to talk.
stay positive =-)

[Protector]

I had this same issue and turns out only time really helped and eventually I met other people and its like my less serious relationships just made me think of him but then I was able to move on to a more serious relationship and I ended up getting married and a couple of years later, so far so good

[airwolf282]

Hey Mystery,

It's hard but you have to start working towards accepting that it's over. Life goes on and I think the best way to move forward is to carry on living the way you did before. Keeping in touch with friends, socializing, and anything else you do with your spare time. It will keep your mind from thinking too much. Don't go looking for a relationship if you're not over the last one because you will then find yourself depending on that person to make your life feel complete, even if they are no good for you. Just enjoy your time right now, think of it as freedom instead of loneliness. Do things you want to do, go to places that you've always wanted to visit, see the movies that you want to see. Sooner or later you will meet someone and if you can learn to be happy within yourself, it will increase that chances of your next relationship working out.

I met my wife about 4 months after a bad break up with someone else and it came totally unexpectedly. I'm sure it will happen for you too but for now, try to enjoy some time to yourself and with your friends. Hope this helps. You can send me a PM anytime if you want to talk

Nathan xo

[WhySoSerious]

Meeting new people and making new friends helps a lot.