Rant - Can someone please tell me who i am??!!

[Smophy]

I don't know who I am.

I have so many different personalities. So many conflicting thoughts. Its like i'm 20 different people, ranging from one end of all the scales to the other. Im evil and im good, im negative yet im positive, i'm having fish 'n' chips yet im having pizza, i agree yet disagree.

It is hard to expleain. No feeling is strong, atleast not for long, i just dont seem to have opinions or a personality. Its hard cos it means i'm never consistant and i have no ambitions.

I sound a bit wappy, i know.

[whirlpools]

I'm not sure what "wappy" is, but I'm sure you don't sound it :)

Maybe you're all of the people you mentioned. It's like... we're all a bit good, and we're all a bit bad. Sometimes we're happy, sometimes we're sad. Some people find it really hard to know who they are. I identify with that; I'm almost 23 and I don't know what my sexuality is, or my religion, nor do I have any sort of career.

None of us can tell you who you are, except that you are all of the things you mentioned.

[Stellata]

My experience is that by becoming aware of our conflicts we start to explore who we are, and gain more of a sense of self. It's.. all part of the process. I didn't believe I even had a personality for years, and now I know I do! It comes as you get older, and as you work in therapy or counselling, or just by doing your own reflection.