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Struggling to support my hubbie
I am hoping that someone out there has got some wise words.
As I mentioned in my intro my husband is recovering from a problem with alcohol. He has been signed off work until December and has just recently handed in his notice so basically he is not going back to his job. I am trying to support him but am finding that really difficult whilst I feel so rubbish. I was also drinking every night, matching him for alcohol consumption on many nights, and was harming as well but I have had no help. Whilst he has been off work getting support and therapy I have had to give up alcohol whilst supporting him, dealing with my problems, carrying on in a job I don't enjoy and pretending that is nothing wrong. I am not sure how much longer I can do this but I have to keep going.
So any wise words on how I make sure I don't go under?
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