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Old 14-07-2009, 06:14 PM   #1
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I was just wondering what other people's experience have been with this.
I met a good few guys off the Internet but always asked for a photo first and was in contact with them a while b4 I met them to see if they were ok.Only one of them have I met more than once and its hardly the romance of the century and no ,I didnt sleep with him.
I usually went for drinks or dinner with them and none of them bar one was any way attractive.All any of them seemed to want was sex .One guy wanted pictures of an untoward kind of which I refused and so I never heard from him again.
I made friends with one guy whom I texted every day for a year and a half ,then for no reason ,he abruptly stopped all contact with no explanation.(we never met)
One fella wanted a threesome becos I wasnt interested in him ,he thought if he introduced a woman on the scene that I might consider ,some hope.
I got terrible perverted texts from another .One guy let me pay for dinner ,another wouldnt buy me a drink and hadnt discovered the power of speech.When I wouldnt go back to anothers house ,he was furious ,I was just wondering if there was any genuine men out there .Im not looking for a husband ,I mean Im not a desperado ,but just the success rate was so bad .That almost every date was a disaster that I came home thinking I was gone demented.
I would like to know if anyone has met anyone nice online.

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Old 14-07-2009, 07:28 PM   #2
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i have met plenty of nice people online but not in a romantic sense. i have a lot of friends online through having my daughter, we all met on a pregnancy/child orientated website, set up our own forum and have all remained in contact.
one of my ex's i knew from the internet, i met him in a scottish chatroom. he lived nearby and i bumped into him in the street one day. i recognised him, we got chatting, we ended up going out and he was lovely up until he got into my knickers. then he turned into the biggest asshole that ever walked the face of the planet.
so my experiences of internet relationships are not good. but my dad however is married to someone he met online and they are expecting their second child.





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Old 14-07-2009, 09:46 PM   #3
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Happy stories yipee!! Im happy for you Fallen Flame .

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Old 14-07-2009, 09:58 PM   #4
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I met my partner online, we've been together for 5 and a half years now (living together for 4 and a half) and have a little boy :)






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Old 15-07-2009, 12:11 AM   #5
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Lads whats the story ,it has to be Irish men .Honestly its just into bed straight away ,even when youre not attracted to them ,and they know ,and they dont care .I lived in England and the men there were so much more polite and more aware of their appearance,it puts men here to shame .

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Old 15-07-2009, 12:23 AM   #6
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I haven't ever tried internet dating as such, but more or less all of my closest friendships and many of my relationships were started on the internet, or at least internet was used as the main means of communication... Just make sure that you stay safe, but avoid communicating too heavily via the internet. I have found that this sometimes leads to false impressions. For instance ,I met a girl in real life who I really liked and she was nice enough online, but was really... cold... in r/l... so avoid creating false impressions

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Old 15-07-2009, 03:54 AM   #7
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Im exactly the same online as I am off ,maybe a bit more open here obv like than I would be to other folk but u get me.Im not false ,Im open ,whatever else I am I dont know .But I do understand how men can use the intenet to their advantage and that is what they are doing.I dont like it.

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Old 15-07-2009, 04:56 AM   #8
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Well I've met a ton of people from the internet, and... Well I'm going to sound like a slut, but I've had sex with all of them, except one. :\ But that's what i had in mind in the first place, it's all fun! Some people I've met are really amazing, and I've become real friends with, some just disappear, and some are kind of around for the sex. I think you have to be picky, I'm very picky, but once I find what I want I don't waste time!

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Old 20-07-2009, 03:06 AM   #9
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I think its me and the way I look .Im chatting away with someone and then I send them a pic and then I never hear form them again.
Plus I posted a pic here and I was totally paranoid beyond all belief and nobody said anything.Ill delete it Id say .Im very upset

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Old 20-07-2009, 11:24 AM   #10
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you posted a picture and no one said anything? please dont feel upset, that has happened to me before too. hugs xxxxx





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Old 20-07-2009, 10:15 PM   #11
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Thats ok so ,Im not alone .Its not very nice though ,I deleted my pics anyway ,its not the best for the confidence .Those threads would make you feel like tearing your eyeballs out .

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Old 21-07-2009, 12:00 AM   #12
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This gets me mad...I have been chatting to someone for over year and a half .he asked me to meet him ages ago.I said no because I was sick of men online all they want is sex.
He swore he just wanted to be friends with me ,he promised me this and has been saying this over and over.I met him on a friendship site btw
Every time we chat he asks me how I am and when we are meeting .So eventually nearly two years later I said alrite Ill meet you for coffee .
And then ...I get a reply ..he will drive to meet me ,but oh no he cant drink and drive home ,so can he stay in my place .
AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
After all that ,after all his promises ,he swore he wanted to be friends .I said Id meet him for coffee ,never mentioned drinking at all.
he is just like all the others ,two years of lies .Im disgusted .

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Old 21-07-2009, 01:33 PM   #13
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im on match.com but not having any success finding women, yes i want a sexual relationship but not instantly like, i want to find someone who is a friend first and progress things, but alas i am fat and ugly and i just get the not interested replies back from girls.

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