Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - Can't get away

[rainbowicdarkness]

I hate him. I do. But I can't get away from him. It's all my fault, my fault. He wouldn't have hurt me if I was different.

I trusted him. He said there was no reason to be afraid of him. And he hurts me >.<. And claims he was just teasing me when someone confronted him on it. And I still have to work with him. I still have to see him, hear his comments, feel his touch *shudders*.

I am a dirty little slut. It's all my fault.

[lozza]

No hunni. It is not your at all fault! I am so sorry for what you had to go through, no one ever deserves that. Is it possible to talk to one of the other workers or your boss? Let them know you feel uncomfortable around him don't want to be around him if at all possible or at least not be around him alone?

*hugs*

Hang in there hunni, I know things may be tough now but it will get better. Thinking of you

[rainbowicdarkness]

The problem is, he is my boss.

[bobbiwibble]

have you told him in clear terms in front of people that it makes you uncomfortable
because once you've said that, you can report him if he carries on even if he claims he is just teasing, and you wouldnt have to go into detail :)

[lozza]

is it at all possible to talk to other workers and get them to be with you when he is around? Or maybe try what bobbiwib suggested?

[rainbowicdarkness]

Other workers know. My friends try to keep me around them, but we have separate positions and they can't be everywhere. And I did report him. Nothing good came of it...

[lozza]

*hugs* I really wish I knew what to say hunni and I wish I could put a stop to this. Sorry:( I am here though if you ever wana chat.