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27-03-2017, 12:04 AM
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It's Bouquet! B-U-C-K-E-T!
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Wales, UK
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Discrimination
After many years of being too unwell to drive I was cleared to drive in December last year. After declaring my diagnosis to the dvla I got my license last month. So my search for a driving instructor began. I found a driving instructor and sent them an email. I booked a lesson and I was worried that I couldn't fit in the car. I asked my driving instructor and was told that a "30+ stone man drives the same car". Now I am large but not that large. So I didn't think that my weight was that much of an issue.
I had my lesson and I felt that it went ok. The instructor let me drive for approximately 20 mins continuously and I booked another lesson. Unfortunately I caught a cold and let the instructor know. I went in contact with him a week today and was told that I could have a lesson on Tuesday. He never turned up. I got in touch thinking perhaps he meant this week. No response. Eventually after several texts I got the reply "I think that you should find a 2 door or an automatic". In other words he thinks that I am a liability.
Now when I drove the car he never said anything about my weight. He had plenty of opportunity to say anything about me being unsafe or to terminate the lesson early. In fact if it wasn't for my cold I would have had a second lesson.
The only thing that I can think of is that he is discriminating me on health grounds. He asked me what job that I did; I explained that I can't work due to a medical condition. He asked what it was and I said schizophrenia. He said that during the lessons I can do anything except become violent. I thought nothing of it at the time but looking back it was clear that he believes the hype around schizophrenia.
Now I feel like complaining. It just seems strange that he was keen to take some more lessons and then make some bs excuse. I have the instructors boss email address. I would quote the disability discrimination act if I knew it applied in my case. Now that is where I need your help in making a complaint. I can't let it go without doing something.
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"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson
"I hear those voices that will not be drowned"
Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
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27-03-2017, 10:46 AM
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It's Bouquet! B-U-C-K-E-T!
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Wales, UK
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Thanks whirlpools. Does anyone have any idea what I should write in my complaint email?
The thing is I never had trouble changing gear in the car that was used so IMO I don't need a automatic. If given the chance I would prefer an manual.
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Wannabe CPN : -)
"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson
"I hear those voices that will not be drowned"
Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
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27-03-2017, 03:29 PM
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It's Bouquet! B-U-C-K-E-T!
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Wales, UK
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He said that during the lesson he thought an 2 door is more roomy and therefore suited to a bigger person. But that was before I drove the car. I don't get the automatic quote either as I had no problem with changing gear. In fact I did it first time!
But if he said something during our lesson or hadn't said that a 30 stone person drives the same car I would be inclined to believe him. I asked my friends opinion before and she said that it sounds fishy. That's why I believe it's down to the schizophrenia issue. Plus the fact that he ignored me. If it had been a case of simply forgetting when he didn't turn up last week he would have replied asap and been apologetic if it weren't a discrimination issue. Or if it had genuinely been a weight issue he would have said something sooner instead of now and not been keen to allow me to book a further lesson.
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Wannabe CPN : -)
"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson
"I hear those voices that will not be drowned"
Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
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27-03-2017, 04:16 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Scotland
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This is completely unacceptable. I wish I knew what to suggest. I'm sorry this has happened to you. His comment about becoming violent shows how stupid he is. He shouldn't have just ignored you like that. Unprofessional.
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27-03-2017, 04:29 PM
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It's Bouquet! B-U-C-K-E-T!
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Wales, UK
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Thanks everyone.
Even if his boss closes ranks and agrees with him I would have felt better for complaining. Also it wasn't his personal car it had a logo for a company which is named after his boss. They had good reviews on Facebook hence why I went with them.
I will come back to this thread once I have thought what to say.
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Wannabe CPN : -)
"He who is tired of Weird Al is tired of life." - Homer Simpson
"I hear those voices that will not be drowned"
Sanity is a nasty disease. The world would be a happier place without it. - Rilic
RIP Kat 4th July 1987- 11th June 2013
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