hello all! i'm doodlebug!

[grungey garbage]

hi, i'm doodlebug (they/them)
i am 25 years old, agender (good luck guessing my gender, I DON'T HAVE ONE HAHAHAH) and in recovery from sh, ed, and drug addiction. i have bpd and almost zero irl friends. i would like to make friends here, maybe someone my own age (my husband is 63 and does NOT understand my mental state AT ALL)
i am looking for communication & friendships with people who understand where I'm coming from, and still wanna chill online with me.
i haven't sh'd in over two years, but i used to love this forum as a teenager when i was deep into it. i loved the sense of camaraderie

[nonperson]

Welcome back. I'm not sure I get the joke about guessing your gender?

[Auror.]

np, agender is the concept that you don't have a gender, gender lacking. (i.e. different from nonbinary which is neither male nor female, more so that gender = nope)

welcome back, things are slower these days but we do still exist. there aren't too many active americans though so don't necessarily expect replies to coincide with your time zone.

[nonperson]

Auror, it's the humour I'm having trouble with, not the definition of agender.

[Auror.]

You can't guess someone's gender if they are agender, because they don't have one to guess.

[one_step_closer]

Hi Doodlebug, welcome back. Well done for being over 2 years self harm free, that's fantastic. I hope you find it helpful being back here. Take care.