because there is more to life than just the bad stuff and it is more than possible to get passed it. i've been bullied in the past and it is more than possible to get through it and suicide is not the answer to it. if you died then the bullies would win.
if someone is treatening to physically hurt you or burn down your house, you should go to the police.
it really isnt worth killing yourself though. you may not believe you can get through this right now but you can. please get some help, talk to a psyc or counsellor or someone. you can get through this.
this is exactly what i was looking for when i was browsing..
feeling low.
and yes.. that low.
this doesn't give you a boost.. but it makes you think.
i dont know.
deserves a huge bump
Wow, just saw this, did you write that Aimee? That is So good! I've written an article on suicide before and was proud of it but now I'm like hmm maybe not, this is just so awesome! Thanks for sharing
"I understand that the pain is overwhelming, but I will never forgive him for the pain he has caused others. It was just selfish."
That is so horrible - i thought everyone on this site understood how bad it feels when you want to die, how can u put more guilt on us??
I have NOBODY who will come and be with me/cuddle me/talk to me or anything right now, i wish i was dead, NO ONE CARES so how can they dare be upset if i killed myself??
i left a message on here a while ago about this...
if people are going to say things like that they should look at themselves and ask - would they be willing to change it? to be there and care? and i dont think many would. I certainly dont know anyone (except me but who wants me?)
It is truely amazing...if only my best friends' friend could have read that...*sigh* I wouldn't have to have seen her in so much f-ing pain...it kills me to see people hurting so bad, over something that someone else did selfishly... Beautiful, very awesome....hope it gets stickied!!
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thats made me think so much. jeez, i never actually realised until now...
thanks for posting that xx
has decided to leave this site for the simple reason that i think its not right for me. i thank all the people who helped me and became friends with me, i hope these friendships last. i urge you all to take care, and maybe one day in the distant future i may return, who knows? but for now i think its best if i leave. i made this decision weeks ago, and feel its right for me. dont take it personally, i love you all xx
Location: In a glass vial in the pocket of a beautiful mind.
I am currently:
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rhap·so·dy - an ecstatic expression of feeling or enthusiasm. ♫
"Sacrifice is the most you can love someone." ♥
“Love was at best an excuse for stupidity, at worst a destructive, dangerous emotion that drove men to acts of annihilation which defied logic. It was a twisted, insidious sentiment used to justify everything from spoiling a child to destroying entire civilizations.”
This has made me see so many things from such a different perspective.
I'm crying right now, harder than I have in months.
Thank you, so , so much.
This is asoltuely incredible.
Location: In a glass vial in the pocket of a beautiful mind.
I am currently:
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rhap·so·dy - an ecstatic expression of feeling or enthusiasm. ♫
"Sacrifice is the most you can love someone." ♥
“Love was at best an excuse for stupidity, at worst a destructive, dangerous emotion that drove men to acts of annihilation which defied logic. It was a twisted, insidious sentiment used to justify everything from spoiling a child to destroying entire civilizations.”
"I understand that the pain is overwhelming, but I will never forgive him for the pain he has caused others. It was just selfish."
That is so horrible - i thought everyone on this site understood how bad it feels when you want to die, how can u put more guilt on us??
I have NOBODY who will come and be with me/cuddle me/talk to me or anything right now, i wish i was dead, NO ONE CARES so how can they dare be upset if i killed myself??
i left a message on here a while ago about this...
if people are going to say things like that they should look at themselves and ask - would they be willing to change it? to be there and care? and i dont think many would. I certainly dont know anyone (except me but who wants me?)
Ok yeah i understand but i also think your wrong. It is selfish to kill yourself. + don't say that i don't understand or that i don't understand how bad it feels to want to die because i do, i feel that every day. But this person wasn't saying they could never forgive the peson for wanting to die, they were devastated by losing there father. That's not horrible, nor does it show lack of understanding. i'm sorry i don't want to sound rude. Also how dare you say that most people wouldn't care and wouldn't do everything they could to help a friend who wanted to kill themselves. People do care even if it doesn't feel like it. + yes i do know what it feels like to feel like no1 cares, i feel like that right now. You matter + you are important.
Location: In a glass vial in the pocket of a beautiful mind.
I am currently:
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rhap·so·dy - an ecstatic expression of feeling or enthusiasm. ♫
"Sacrifice is the most you can love someone." ♥
“Love was at best an excuse for stupidity, at worst a destructive, dangerous emotion that drove men to acts of annihilation which defied logic. It was a twisted, insidious sentiment used to justify everything from spoiling a child to destroying entire civilizations.”
nearly seven months ago, my partner and best friend took his life. i found him when i came home from work. i have attempted suicide myself, so it is hard to explain how i feel about it. but i thought i'd share my thread from the grief and trauma forum with you, so you get some idea of how it's made me feel.
My grandad killed himself last year. I cant tell you how much pain and devastation it caused and my whole family struggle still now. I understand the feeling of wanting to die, ive attempted it so many times but since then i have realised how selfish it is. I could not allow my family to go through that again.
Through the dark, a strand of light, the light continued to get bright, with it came the strength to fight (Gem)
