Originally Posted by
Voice Of Reason
*hugs hells*
*soothes her anger*
shhhhh....
is it about what we had that big long conversation on a bus about baby?
it's ok....just take some deep breaths...
Dont let yourself rise to it because they are just stupid and you are farrrr too good for that.
I know it was horrible at the time and you were angry and scared but you got through it...and thats the most important thing.
You tried and if they dont want to listen...well...they are bloody stupid...but YOU'LL be ok and you will survive sweetyheart
*continues to hug and soothe til Hells feels better*
xoxo
*hugs Alexx back*
Yes it is what we had that big long conversation when I was on a train haha. I do take big deep breathes but just uually sends me into a panic attack becaue I am that wound up. But today I'm not as angry I don't think. They are stuipd, they're like but you didn't tell him to STOP. WELL HOW ABOUT YOU GO THROUGH THAT HELL...AND TRY TELLING SOMEONE TO STOP, OR TRY GETTING RAPED AND TRYING TO TELL SOMEONE TO STOOP THEN
Pffft they were like if you think we're being out of order, come in tmorrow (probs to let me think) and tell us!!! Don't facebook me, dont email me, but come in. Why should I travel for 3 hours in total both ways (1 hour & half each) just to have a 10 minute or so dicussion on how they are so bloody wrong? Plus if I took this further, they could quite easily turn around and say theydidnt offer that and deny it and stuff. I have lost all respect I had for one person (as she was the chaplin and I told her a lot)....and that person als brought up when Stef died, when I got drunk and how I put myself into vunerable situations, how I am a very vunerable person at times and how I should take a hell of lot more care when being somewhere I don't know (i.e. halls) more than the average uni student here. Yes some of what she said was pretty valid points, but they just angered me so much and my peer mentor who I was chatting to on facebok and then rang me for well over an hour...becaue I was that upset. She was like saying I should take the incident to the police heh and all sorts. Oh and they were like if you felt violated (um didn't ask me but YES I DID) we'd take it to the police and they were like you didn't tell him to stop so your actions to get AWAY from him COULD be interepted as 'flirting' and 'teasing' him!!!! Also they were like what do YOU think the best thing would be to do if you see him again? So I was like ignore him probably....and they were like well the adult thing to do is to apologise for flirting with him and giving him the wrong impression....WHAT THE ACTUAL ****? THAT'S TELLING HIM IT'S OKAY TO DO WHAT HE DID AND LETS HIM GET AWAY WITH IT!!!! I'm so unbelievably angry stilll and upset, still haven't cried >.<
